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    A year ago from today................

    Life can be quite ironic at times. A year ago from today was the last day I saw my ex fiancee here in the states. The next day from there was one of, if not the, worst days of my life. I received a phone call from her brother saying she had been detained by immigration and was being...
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    Receiving a text after some NC.

    So quick background. Went out with this chick for like a month. Dates were good, sex was good, we got along well. Then she left for a week to go to cali, was blowing me up all day everyday with texts and stuff up until the last 2 days she was there. Noticed she posted an e card in her mobile...
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    Instant clinger, red flag?

    Well had a funny unusual experience last night. Met this hb7 I'd say, maybe 7.5 on okcupid. Lots of flirty sexual texts prior to meeting, and she even sent me nude pics. So date went well, her attraction for me was apparent and within no time she started going on and on complimenting me and...
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    Is this girl beyond repair?

    Ok before I talk about this chick, I want to make it clear I have been spinning other plates while seeing her, so she is far from the only one. I look at her as a seed on the side, and am just looking to see if something will eventually grow out of it out of curiosity. So as silly as this...
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    What to do here?

    Been seeing this chick for about a month. Good vibe from her, sex is good, and interest has been high. About 4 days ago she took a trip to cali and up til yesterday she had been blowing me up with texts. Good morning baby type ones and good night ones too. I would only reciprocate and...
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    She invited me in and was dtf but then.....

    Ok so went out with one of my plates last night. 3rd time we've been out, had some good make out seshes up to this point, and the sexual tension is definitely building. Prior to this point also we had met up at spots, but this time I picked her up from her spot. So when I took her back...
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    Should I respond to this?

    Nexted a chick last week that was showing low interest and just generally blowing me off. Flaked on our last 2 meetups, both reasons may or may have not been legit, but regardless I was detecting low interest from her and decided to next her. She was putting her friends and social life over me...
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    You guys ever flake on purpose?

    Curious if you guys ever flake out on a chick on purpose, not in retaliation to being flaked on, but when wanting to test interest, and when detecting unenthusiasm and what not. Did this with a chick today that has been making it a pain to make plans with, being unresponsive and what not...
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    Red flags.

    Ok well, got to thinking to myself, over the years there are some sure signs that things ain't gonna go too well. Some of these things can be a bit overlooked, some can't, others can go be good or bad. But without further ado, here are some red flags I look out for: The social butterfly...
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    Straight up dump her or just go NC? Advice please.

    Ok so I'm pretty much at my wit's end with this one and want to get a point across with her but am still not sure how I'm going to proceed. Last 2 times we were supposed to meet up and she has flaked on both. First over her wisdom teeth being in pain, this time claiming she is sick. First...
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    Taking things slow, how slow is too slow?

    Ok well, been dating quite a few women lately, and have it narrowed down to 2 that I like, and one other possible prospect. For the record I'm not just looking for a quick lay, had plenty of that these past couple months and am more interested in finding something more, and settling down with...
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    How should I handle this?

    Been dating this girl for about month now. Things have been going well, seemingly high interest, but there was never any mention of her seeing other guys. Lol nor have I let her know I'm seeing other girls. I'm looking to eventually settle and am just out playing the field looking to find...
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    Failed kiss close. Move on or keep at it. Advice please.

    Ok fellas, long story short, went out with this chick today on a cool action date at an indoor gun range and went and grabbed a bite and drink afterward. Everything was great, conversation, kino, hand holding. This was our 3rd time seeing each other, last time closed with just a peck so I...
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    "Charm is treating women like little girls."

    Those words of pook resonated within me when I first read them a little over a year ago. And last night was a perfect example of their validity. Met with an HB8 for the 2nd time I number closed at a starbucks about 2 weeks ago. We've taked on the phone and texted a bit in between. Met up...
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    Dealing with shy, prudent girls.

    Went out with a chick last night. Things ended positively, left her with high interest and she even offered plans for a second meetup. Problem is I detect a potential BPD, and she was very, very shy and seemed very prudent. Barely started opening up to me at the end of the date, and her body...
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    Been having a lot of good dates lately, some observations from this last one.

    So Saturday night met up with a chick I met on good ol' POF. We exchanged a few messages and number closed within 4 or 5 or so and the next day did some flirty texting and arranged for a meet up. Decided to hit an amusement park and she was totally excited about it. Met at mutual...
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    POF date that ended quite bad!

    Well, so been messing around with this chick I met on POF. Going at it for about 2 or 3 weeks. We decided we wanted to get a room and pound it out for the night. Had a few drinks and went on to the room and escalated from there. Well I suppose it was due to her having had one too many...
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    The POF opener to end all openers!

    What up fellas. Well I've been trolling pof after reading naughtninjas recent thread, and after searching around a few other boards I have found what I think is the best pof opener, bar none. I got a slew of chicks wanting to meet up now, so this is field tested. Simply title the message...
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    Need help in maintaining long distance relationship.

    Me and my girl have been in a long distance relationship for the last 3 months for reasons beyond our control. Long story short things have been getting a bit dry naturally as this is very hard for both of us. Though we have plans for me to relocate where she is at within 2 months and we plan...
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    Maintaining a long distance relationship and moving abroad.

    Hey fellas, a lot of you already know what's going in my life currently with my LTR gf being deported, if not you can check my thread here: http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=182786 Well after dealing with immigration lawyers and researching this stuff the only real option we have...
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