"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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  • MatureDJ
    MatureDJ replied to the thread Rate this guys face plz.
    He seemed to be a good bit more handsome as Franco in "The Gumball Rally".
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    MatureDJ reacted to Cheeky_James's post in the thread Rate this guys face plz with Like Like.
    correct. Yes I am. seriously dude, I’ve given you guys a photo of a dudes face. It’s clear his face proportions and ratios. His cranio...
  • Travel memoir21
    Well we're social creatures, but I know where you're coming from....with the rise of some technology and the feminist man hating...
  • Cheeky_James
    yes, this is a known issue, really. Back in the GLL days on the forum this was discussed. At the time, some of the 'coaches' (can't...
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    Slag reacted to Atom Smasher's post in the thread Top tier guys with Like Like.
    Game has been a factor since the dawn of man. Women have always been deeply attracted to masculine energy. This phenomenon supersedes...
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    Cheeky_James reacted to BPH's post in the thread Top tier guys with Like Like.
    I don't agree with you on this one, but I'm going to see the girl from my LR, so I'll have to write out a detailed response later.
  • The Duke
    The Duke reacted to sevbucmash's post in the thread Women and P0rn with Haha Haha.
    The sample size is doing a lot of heavy lifting here. A few exes aren't exactly a peer-reviewed study.
  • BPH
    BPH replied to the thread Top tier guys.
    I don't agree with you on this one, but I'm going to see the girl from my LR, so I'll have to write out a detailed response later.
  • Cheeky_James
    Cheeky_James replied to the thread Top tier guys.
    I’ve already explained it in the thread. In various replies. Such as this one to Atom Smasher...
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    On Tinder, it’s super common to see guys listing their height. The implied reason is that women who are attracted to men actually give a...
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    Not only that, but you can see how oblivious he is to how erratic, unpersuasive, and alienating his personality comes across to others...
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    zekko replied to the thread Advantages of Your Height.
    I don't see how I'm the one saying height is so important when I'm the one saying I wouldn't lie about it on OLD. I wouldn't bother. A...
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    zekko reacted to Atom Smasher's post in the thread Advantages of Your Height with Like Like.
    Lots of men on the lower end of the height scale do just fine with women. They don’t let it get in their way. They compensate with...
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    BPH replied to the thread Top tier guys.
    You've made several posts about looks, personality, and rating people - most of which were within the last week. Is there a point...
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    You are so stuck in your view that I feel kind of bad for you. You’re spinning your wheels in the mud, man. I can tell you why you had...
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