Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Rate this guys face plz

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Following on from another thread.
I’d like to gather from youse guys how you would rate this guys face below on the 1-10 scale.
He has sunnies on here. But has eyes like the actor Raul Julia if that makes any difference.
 

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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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@Cheeky_James you want me to judge a dude's face when the photo is black & white without being able to see his eyes...?
correct. Yes I am.

seriously dude, I’ve given you guys a photo of a dudes face. It’s clear his face proportions and ratios. His cranio facials. His jawline, his hair and hairline. His skull shape , his nose .his smile and his teeth (ffs):rolleyes: it’s all fvcking right there dude.

And you fellas (of course )will still manage to nitpick about BS and try deflect (“I can’t it’s a B&W photo bro” LMFAO)

Eyes like Raul Julia the actor..
He’s a Latin guy and has those dark ringed ‘sexy’ eyes imo.
Very very much like this look here.
Just give me your rating and opinions on his face and handsomeness etc. it’s a pretty simple question to ask on a pickup forum I would have thought.

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correct. Yes I am.

seriously dude, I’ve given you guys a photo of a dudes face. It’s clear his face proportions and ratios. His cranio facials. His jawline, his hair and hairline. His skull shape , his nose .his smile and his teeth (ffs):rolleyes: it’s all fvcking right there dude.

And you fellas (of course )will still manage to nitpick about BS and try deflect (“I can’t it’s a B&W photo bro” LMFAO)

Eyes like Raul Julia the actor..
He’s a Latin guy and has those dark ringed ‘sexy’ eyes imo.
Very very much like this look here.
Just give me your rating and opinions on his face and handsomeness etc. it’s a pretty simple question to ask on a pickup forum I would have thought.

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Considering you went through the trouble of scribbling out tattoos...is that gentleman you?
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Considering you went through the trouble of scribbling out tattoos...is that gentleman you?
that’s actually irrelevant ? Stop deflecting dude.
It’s a simple question.
Just give a simple answer

rate another dudes face on a 1-10 scale.
Simple AF question.
 

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@BPH with your 6/10 :rolleyes:

man you guys on here are coping so fvckin hard it’s not funny.
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That first guy is GEORGE CLOONEY btw.

just in case you can’t tell the fvcking difference .:rolleyes:
And if George is a 10 face (and he fvcking IS btw)

Then this 6 of yours is a 9 buddy.
he’s a 9 /10 faced guy.
 

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@BPH with your 6/10 :rolleyes:

man you guys on here are coping so fvckin hard it’s not funny.
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That first guy is GEORGE CLOONEY btw.

just in case you can’t tell the fvcking difference .:rolleyes:
And if George is a 10 face (and he fvcking IS btw)

Then this 6 of yours is a 9 buddy.
he’s a 9 /10 faced guy.
K. I don't know why you seem so invested in this but alright.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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K. I don't know why you seem so invested in this but alright.
because this whole forum runs on a fallacy tbh.
That’s all. Just keeping it real bro.
No one except yourself an 1 or 2 guys shows their face. But yet gives out advice to other anonymous guys. Advice without the proper context to it , as in ie -what the guy LOOKS like. What face and how tall he is , what ethnicity , age, location etc etc . And gives it out to another guy.

It’s this in meme form;



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because this whole forum runs on a fallacy tbh.
That’s all. Just keeping it real bro.
No one except yourself an 1 or 2 guys shows their face. But yet gives out advice to other anonymous guys. Advice without the proper context to it , as in ie -what the guy LOOKS like. What face and how tall he is , what ethnicity , age, location etc etc . And gives it out to another guy.

It’s this in meme form;



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Alright, here I'll give a more in-depth answer...

He's conventionally attractive but not really outstanding in any way. He doesn't have dimples. He doesn't have a chiseled jawline. He doesn't have particularly high cheekbones. It looks like his hair might be combed forward because it might be receding or thinning. I have no idea what his eyes look like, nor do I know his complexion.

He's above average, hence the 6, but is not going to stand out based purely on the attractiveness of his face.
 

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correct. Yes I am.

seriously dude, I’ve given you guys a photo of a dudes face. It’s clear his face proportions and ratios. His cranio facials. His jawline, his hair and hairline. His skull shape , his nose .his smile and his teeth (ffs):rolleyes: it’s all fvcking right there dude.

And you fellas (of course )will still manage to nitpick about BS and try deflect (“I can’t it’s a B&W photo bro” LMFAO)

Eyes like Raul Julia the actor..
He’s a Latin guy and has those dark ringed ‘sexy’ eyes imo.
Very very much like this look here.
Just give me your rating and opinions on his face and handsomeness etc. it’s a pretty simple question to ask on a pickup forum I would have thought.

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Serial killer
 

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because this whole forum runs on a fallacy tbh.
That’s all. Just keeping it real bro.
No one except yourself an 1 or 2 guys shows their face. But yet gives out advice to other anonymous guys. Advice without the proper context to it , as in ie -what the guy LOOKS like. What face and how tall he is , what ethnicity , age, location etc etc . And gives it out to another guy.

It’s this in meme form;



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This is a societal problem. Dudes are and have always been overly competitive in regards to women. Women, meanwhile tend to adopt a united front and one can see what current society has become.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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This is a societal problem. Dudes are and have always been overly competitive in regards to women. Women, meanwhile tend to adopt a united front and one can see what current society has become.
so are you saying SoSuave members give out crap advice deliberately? To prevent the competition for their women from other anonymous dudes?

That would make sense yeah. Good point! :up::p
 

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So what’s that serial killer guy above on a 1-10 scale dude , based on his Face.

chicks love serial killers btw. Sexual fantasy, Dark Triad ,Dom Sub stuff. Maybe tap into that ;)
They also like when they ask how can they find you and you tell them "just look for the guy with the biggest shoulders in the place and you'll find me." ;)
 

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Alright, here I'll give a more in-depth answer...

He's conventionally attractive but not really outstanding in any way. He doesn't have dimples. He doesn't have a chiseled jawline. He doesn't have particularly high cheekbones. It looks like his hair might be combed forward because it might be receding or thinning. I have no idea what his eyes look like, nor do I know his complexion.

He's above average, hence the 6, but is not going to stand out based purely on the attractiveness of his face.
well that’s interesting BPH.
Cos Ive known this guy for a years. He was a mentor and his game was insane.
It would smoke your game or anyone else on the forum most likely. And he would have surpassed your laycount too.
He pulled off some mad sh1t w women. With a completely different kind of Game.

And re his face he was very Handsome, more like an 8 or 9 Face. You’re underrating him.
He was almost Clooney-Lite. W thick Latin hair, great hair.
And great ‘evil eyes’ like Raul Julia .

So your assessment is way off.
He was a proper Latin Seducer guy.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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