"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Advantages of Your Height

SickSadWorld

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The real big issue I've seen debated here is whether or not to lie on OLD about your height. I've never done any OLD, so I don't know anything about it. But guys here say a lot of women filter out any guy under 6'0", so they say they put down that they are 6'0", even if they are not. I don't like this idea because I don't like lying, plus I feel like if they can't accept me the way I am, they can take a flying leap, you know?
See. When I read this paragraph I can feel you are putting too much value in height despite earlier saying that “there is nothing to do about it”. It certainly reveal you value it more than actually is for real. Listen. Height portraits characteristics of physical power. Everything has a reason underlying. It is not not because magazine or women say height is attractive it becomes true. I don’t take seriously what girls say because they like to turn down the hopes of the majority. If we lived in a different world where everybody was tall then they might say shortness is the most attractive trait because you can escape easier and that would be a better survival trait. You see magazine, shows and movies and it is all a ****ing marketing. Why would height matter ? Would women choose height over a bigger ****?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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zekko

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See. When I read this paragraph I can feel you are putting too much value in height despite earlier saying that “there is nothing to do about it”
I don't see how I'm the one saying height is so important when I'm the one saying I wouldn't lie about it on OLD. I wouldn't bother. A lot of guys here argue they should lie about their height. There have been threads on here about wearing lifts. I'm not wearing lifts, nor do I have any desire to.

Having said that, yes I do believe there IS some value to height, just as there is value in any other attractive trait, like good health, clear skin, athletic build, etc. Some women like tall guys. You can pretend they don't, but that's not reality.
 
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