"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Women and P0rn

The Duke

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They sure aren't very open with these details are they? Out of all the girls I've dated, there has only been two that said much about p0rn. One liked watching it when we had sex. The other had a box full of DVD's(yes, before p0rnhub) in her closet....she was a crazy freak complete with Bipolar too. A few were readers of smut/romance novels.

I was surprised the numbers were as high as they are. I've been believing their innocence too much all of these years. Same thing in regards to when they tell you they've been with only 5 guys, but its really 15.

I wasn't surprised they enjoy lesbian porn. There's a bit of lesbian in every "straight" girl. Even women value a nice female body.

Source: Captain Google
An estimated 40% to 60% of women watch pornography, with studies and platform data showing rising female viewership across various demographics. [1, 2, 3]

Prevalence and Overall Rates
    • Annual/Past-Year Use: Up to 42% to 53% of women report watching pornography within a given year.
    • Past-Month Use: Studies estimate that 44% to 60.2% of women have viewed pornography in the past month.
    • Platform Demographics: Women make up roughly 35% to 38% of global traffic on major adult platforms like Pornhub, up from around 25%–29% in prior years. [1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6]

Age and Background Trends
    • Age Factor: Pornography consumption is highest among younger women and declines with age. For example, studies show over 70% of young adult women (ages 18–30) have viewed porn, while more than 81% of women aged 65 and older report never watching it. [1, 2, 3]
    • Childhood/Adolescence Exposure: Approximately 55% to 69% of women who watch porn report that they first encountered it during childhood or adolescence. [1, 2]
    • Written vs. Video Formats: While men consume video content most frequently, research shows women consume significantly higher amounts of written/erotic literature alongside visual media. [1] @Cheeky_James this sheds light on why more than looks matter to women. I'm going to convince you some day! haha

Viewing Patterns and Preferences
    • Context: Women are more likely than men to report couple-based viewing or using pornography to enhance solo masturbation and sexual learning. [1, 2, 3]
    • Common Searches: Female viewers frequently search for categories such as romantic erotica, lesbian content, ****, and specific narrative-driven themes compared to male-skewing searches
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Plinco

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The girl I lost my virginity to in high school had her own porn collection. Several women have told me about their masturbation habits and porn use and you wouldn't believe some of the depraved stuff some of them are into.

Broadly it's men who get called out on their use of pornography but there's women out there who are just as bad.
 

Prepostereax

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Interesting thread but on a subject we probably won't be privy to.

research shows women consume significantly higher amounts of written/erotic literature alongside visual media
Most twentysomething girls I know simply do not read books.
But several do have a kindle or similar

My woman took me to Sense and Sensibility yesterday (or "how to nail chad")
The interactions were entertaining. Not porn but this is what women seem into.
So for this tale to have survived centuries and had millions of $$ thrown at its multiple iterations, it must resonate
 

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The sample size is doing a lot of heavy lifting here. A few exes aren't exactly a peer-reviewed study.
 

sevbucmash

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The girl I lost my virginity to in high school had her own porn collection. Several women have told me about their masturbation habits and porn use and you wouldn't believe some of the depraved stuff some of them are into.

Broadly it's men who get called out on their use of pornography but there's women out there who are just as bad.
Every thread eventually becomes trust me bro, I have anecdotes.

Interesting thread but on a subject we probably won't be privy to.

Most twentysomething girls I know simply do not read books.
But several do have a kindle or similar

My woman took me to Sense and Sensibility yesterday (or "how to nail chad")
The interactions were entertaining. Not porn but this is what women seem into.
So for this tale to have survived centuries and had millions of $$ thrown at its multiple iterations, it must resonate
The older I get, the more I realize human behavior is complicated and stereotypes are just intellectual shortcuts.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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