She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Espi said:The guy's had 3 altercations with the law over the last few years...what horrible luck this guy has. If people around him would just behave...
I mean...it's not like he's at ALL responsible for his own behavior.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Danger said:Fatal,
Jeantel TESTIFIED that Trayvon confronted Zimmerman.
End of case.
Eventually, she said she heard an exchange of words — Trayvon asking “why you following me for?” and a “hard-breathing man” responding, “what are you doing around here?” — before hearing noises and Trayvon saying “get off, get off.”
Read more: http://fox17online.com/2013/06/27/key-witness-testifies-on-trayvon-martin-shooting/#ixzz2lGM1XMXt
To be completely honest, so do I.amoka said:The guy just loves the feel of a gun in his hands.
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
We all know why you side with Trayvon. It's the same way across the country save a few on either side. Let it go, the verdict was read. No sense in infiltrating this forum with that garbage again.Fatal Jay said:Dude if your reaching I understand, you can't tell me your still holding to the fact that trayvon fought him first,lol. Even before trayvon, Zimmerman started all the **** first, the evidence is there, he had a past with the police before trayvon, if your too much an idiot to admit he has started it all then so be it, but I don't believe you guys are idiots your just playing dumb for the sake of playing dumb.