Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Espi said:The guy's had 3 altercations with the law over the last few years...what horrible luck this guy has. If people around him would just behave...
I mean...it's not like he's at ALL responsible for his own behavior.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Danger said:Fatal,
Jeantel TESTIFIED that Trayvon confronted Zimmerman.
End of case.
Eventually, she said she heard an exchange of words — Trayvon asking “why you following me for?” and a “hard-breathing man” responding, “what are you doing around here?” — before hearing noises and Trayvon saying “get off, get off.”
Read more: http://fox17online.com/2013/06/27/key-witness-testifies-on-trayvon-martin-shooting/#ixzz2lGM1XMXt
To be completely honest, so do I.amoka said:The guy just loves the feel of a gun in his hands.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
We all know why you side with Trayvon. It's the same way across the country save a few on either side. Let it go, the verdict was read. No sense in infiltrating this forum with that garbage again.Fatal Jay said:Dude if your reaching I understand, you can't tell me your still holding to the fact that trayvon fought him first,lol. Even before trayvon, Zimmerman started all the **** first, the evidence is there, he had a past with the police before trayvon, if your too much an idiot to admit he has started it all then so be it, but I don't believe you guys are idiots your just playing dumb for the sake of playing dumb.