"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Zimmerman arrested again!
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
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Dude if your reaching I understand, you can't tell me your still holding to the fact that trayvon fought him first,lol. Even before trayvon, Zimmerman started all the **** first, the evidence is there, he had a past with the police before trayvon, if your too much an idiot to admit he has started it all then so be it, but I don't believe you guys are idiots your just playing dumb for the sake of playing dumb.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
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Nobody really gives a fvck about his gf, she is just an other tool to restart the apology of trayvon, we all understood that I guess.
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Danger said:
Zimmerman can go to hell. If I see someone stalking me in the neighborhood, I will confront them too. If they give me some smart a$$ question like "what are you doing here" I will get in his face. Unless it's one of my psycho ex's, then I would just run.
I still hope Zimmerman fries and gets a taste of Bubbas d!ck in prison. You can't be stalking people for no reason. Zimmerman is a stalker.
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To be completely honest, so do I.amoka said:
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
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We all know why you side with Trayvon. It's the same way across the country save a few on either side. Let it go, the verdict was read. No sense in infiltrating this forum with that garbage again.Fatal Jay said:
It won't change, people will not change their opinion, no matter what the media or government does. Best thing you can do is watch your own back.