"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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jdawgmcb said:
Thanks for the advice you guys :)

I think i'll try to focus on having more "fun" for the rest of the time that I have :)

I am going to go to a large university hopefully, so maybe that will help out a lot too :)
Good, now get that line out of your sig as well; otherwise I'll feel like I've been typing all that sh*t for nothing.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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snowdog said:
Good, now get that line out of your sig as well; otherwise I'll feel like I've been typing all that sh*t for nothing.
Done :)

Would you recomend me trying to work on my inner game?
 

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Yea man, definitely! Inner game is the most important thing. Like I said, things started to change drastically once I started sorting that out. After that comes the outer game. You need a good foundation to build that on. Learning lines and routines while you don't have inner game is like building a house on quicksand. It's not going to work.

There is some good stuff on here, but I really recommend you to read this. It really changed about how I felt about myself and life in general. Despite the sh*tty cover, there is some really good stuff in there.

Gain confidence, learn to love yourself. If you feel good about yourself, people around it will feel it and they will like you more. Talk to as many people you can, male and female. It will learn you to have a good conversation.
 

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snowdog said:
2: fat chicks
3: ugly fat chicks
4: nasty sl*ts
Do it.

Once you bang a fat chick you won't feel so much pressure anymore and it will help you to relax.

Once you relax you can work on picking up better looking chicks.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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