Good, now get that line out of your sig as well; otherwise I'll feel like I've been typing all that sh*t for nothing.jdawgmcb said:Thanks for the advice you guys
I think i'll try to focus on having more "fun" for the rest of the time that I have
I am going to go to a large university hopefully, so maybe that will help out a lot too
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Zero Hour: I want to lose virginity by the end of high school (June 09)
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Yea man, definitely! Inner game is the most important thing. Like I said, things started to change drastically once I started sorting that out. After that comes the outer game. You need a good foundation to build that on. Learning lines and routines while you don't have inner game is like building a house on quicksand. It's not going to work.
There is some good stuff on here, but I really recommend you to read this. It really changed about how I felt about myself and life in general. Despite the sh*tty cover, there is some really good stuff in there.
Gain confidence, learn to love yourself. If you feel good about yourself, people around it will feel it and they will like you more. Talk to as many people you can, male and female. It will learn you to have a good conversation.
There is some good stuff on here, but I really recommend you to read this. It really changed about how I felt about myself and life in general. Despite the sh*tty cover, there is some really good stuff in there.
Gain confidence, learn to love yourself. If you feel good about yourself, people around it will feel it and they will like you more. Talk to as many people you can, male and female. It will learn you to have a good conversation.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.