Good, now get that line out of your sig as well; otherwise I'll feel like I've been typing all that sh*t for nothing.jdawgmcb said:Thanks for the advice you guys
I think i'll try to focus on having more "fun" for the rest of the time that I have
I am going to go to a large university hopefully, so maybe that will help out a lot too
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Yea man, definitely! Inner game is the most important thing. Like I said, things started to change drastically once I started sorting that out. After that comes the outer game. You need a good foundation to build that on. Learning lines and routines while you don't have inner game is like building a house on quicksand. It's not going to work.
There is some good stuff on here, but I really recommend you to read this. It really changed about how I felt about myself and life in general. Despite the sh*tty cover, there is some really good stuff in there.
Gain confidence, learn to love yourself. If you feel good about yourself, people around it will feel it and they will like you more. Talk to as many people you can, male and female. It will learn you to have a good conversation.
There is some good stuff on here, but I really recommend you to read this. It really changed about how I felt about myself and life in general. Despite the sh*tty cover, there is some really good stuff in there.
Gain confidence, learn to love yourself. If you feel good about yourself, people around it will feel it and they will like you more. Talk to as many people you can, male and female. It will learn you to have a good conversation.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.