"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Zero 123, you're now a hero in my eyes....

trent81

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You called it brother. It's so amazing how you saw that in the second reply that it was another guy. You are the bomb. You want to do some lines, you need someone's ass beat, you let me know.



THis post refers to my infamous "I'm done, absolutely ridiculous"


Now I have to figure out how to meet truly single women.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Dude, most women aren't truly single. So this shouldn't have come as much of a surprise. It difficult to find single women because even the ones that aren't single will tell you they are if they are attracted to you (though you could use that to your advantage if you know what to do).
 

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I don't think that some people understand that a woman who has feelings for an exboyfriend that she almost married (been together eight years) and the difficulty it is to compete with that. Now, you guys in this forum can talk all you want about gaming, and blah blah blah. You can fuvk girls like this, that's for sure. But as far as getting one hundred percent from a woman who is in love with someone else of eight years, not gonna happen......And so the flaking......etc.....She has to move on herself, enough time has to develop for you expect that she will want to see you as anything more than a fuvk. So, we move on to the next one.
 

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But as far as getting one hundred percent from a woman who is in love with someone else of eight years, not gonna happen.
This is going to sound really fvcking evil, but the trick to getting her away from that other guy is to attract her to a point where she falls in love with you.

All women who are in relationships have something in common: There's something that they're not getting from their man. What you need to do is figure out what that something is, and give it to her.

...and if you're wondering, it's not candy, flowers, jewelry, etc. It's also not love, nor romance.

I'd say about 80% of the time, they're not getting any excitement nor fun out of the relationship. If you have no clue what she's missing from her relationship, the odds are pretty good if you show her that you're interesting, fun, and exciting to be with.

The other small percentile could be other things. It could be sex, money, or even something silly like positive reinforcement (especially if her s/o does the exact opposite by telling her she's unattractive or worthless.) It could also be a combination of things.

Once you genuinely figure out how to fill the void in her relationship, stealing a woman from her man becomes incredibly easy. Everything that makes you incompatible with her becomes irrelevant. You could be married yourself with four kids, and she'll still want you because you can give her what her s/o can't.

What a woman wants and needs right at that moment is what's most important to her. That's why women generally suck at doing any long term planning.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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trent81 said:
I don't think that some people understand that a woman who has feelings for an exboyfriend that she almost married (been together eight years) and the difficulty it is to compete with that. Now, you guys in this forum can talk all you want about gaming, and blah blah blah. You can fuvk girls like this, that's for sure. But as far as getting one hundred percent from a woman who is in love with someone else of eight years, not gonna happen......And so the flaking......etc.....She has to move on herself, enough time has to develop for you expect that she will want to see you as anything more than a fuvk. So, we move on to the next one.

so true
 
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