"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Zero 123, you're now a hero in my eyes....

trent81

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You called it brother. It's so amazing how you saw that in the second reply that it was another guy. You are the bomb. You want to do some lines, you need someone's ass beat, you let me know.



THis post refers to my infamous "I'm done, absolutely ridiculous"


Now I have to figure out how to meet truly single women.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Dude, most women aren't truly single. So this shouldn't have come as much of a surprise. It difficult to find single women because even the ones that aren't single will tell you they are if they are attracted to you (though you could use that to your advantage if you know what to do).
 

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I don't think that some people understand that a woman who has feelings for an exboyfriend that she almost married (been together eight years) and the difficulty it is to compete with that. Now, you guys in this forum can talk all you want about gaming, and blah blah blah. You can fuvk girls like this, that's for sure. But as far as getting one hundred percent from a woman who is in love with someone else of eight years, not gonna happen......And so the flaking......etc.....She has to move on herself, enough time has to develop for you expect that she will want to see you as anything more than a fuvk. So, we move on to the next one.
 

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But as far as getting one hundred percent from a woman who is in love with someone else of eight years, not gonna happen.
This is going to sound really fvcking evil, but the trick to getting her away from that other guy is to attract her to a point where she falls in love with you.

All women who are in relationships have something in common: There's something that they're not getting from their man. What you need to do is figure out what that something is, and give it to her.

...and if you're wondering, it's not candy, flowers, jewelry, etc. It's also not love, nor romance.

I'd say about 80% of the time, they're not getting any excitement nor fun out of the relationship. If you have no clue what she's missing from her relationship, the odds are pretty good if you show her that you're interesting, fun, and exciting to be with.

The other small percentile could be other things. It could be sex, money, or even something silly like positive reinforcement (especially if her s/o does the exact opposite by telling her she's unattractive or worthless.) It could also be a combination of things.

Once you genuinely figure out how to fill the void in her relationship, stealing a woman from her man becomes incredibly easy. Everything that makes you incompatible with her becomes irrelevant. You could be married yourself with four kids, and she'll still want you because you can give her what her s/o can't.

What a woman wants and needs right at that moment is what's most important to her. That's why women generally suck at doing any long term planning.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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trent81 said:
I don't think that some people understand that a woman who has feelings for an exboyfriend that she almost married (been together eight years) and the difficulty it is to compete with that. Now, you guys in this forum can talk all you want about gaming, and blah blah blah. You can fuvk girls like this, that's for sure. But as far as getting one hundred percent from a woman who is in love with someone else of eight years, not gonna happen......And so the flaking......etc.....She has to move on herself, enough time has to develop for you expect that she will want to see you as anything more than a fuvk. So, we move on to the next one.

so true
 
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