"You're too serious"

[perseverance]

If a girl says this to you what the hell does it mean? A girl I was seeing for a while said it to me about a year ago and recently my mate had it said to him. I guess it was something to do with me being AFC and wanting a relationship with her, perhaps she didn't feel the same way? Does anyone know, it's really bugging me.

Perseverance.

 

[zekko]

My guess is she's saying you're boring and not fun enough.
Could be what you're saying too, though.

 

[The_411]

Too serious = not fun and not making her wet. Doesn't mean you need to be a prankster but she's indicating that you're not making her tingly.

 

[backbreaker]

Youre too serious= you came on too hard too fast and you aren't a challenge

 

[Victory Unlimited]

"You're too serious"
The Victory Unlimited, Babelingual Translation:

"You're NOT as attractive to me as my fantasy "celebrity crush", so there's really nothing you can do that will please me. AND because of that...it means absolutely NOTHING to me that you might get turned off or offended by my random, self-important, overly entitled, and UNSOLICITED criticism of your statistically normal demeanor and behavior."

 

[DJVladdy]

All of you are wrong.

 

[DJVladdy]

I've been called too serious before. It means that you act like a "badass" because in reality you are scared of appearing VULNERABLE. And actually being vulnerable takes balls.

 

[Scars]

I've been called too serious before. It means that you act like a "badass" because in reality you are scared of appearing VULNERABLE. And actually being vulnerable takes balls.

That's one interpretation of it.

To me, maybe it seems you and your friend came off canned. Was it right around the time you first started studying PUA?

You might also just need to lighten up a bit. Girls like bad boys. And bad boys are reckless. If you wear the "i don't give a fvck" attitude, I bet you will never be called "serious" again. :]

Pee outside in public every once in awhile.
Spit on the floor inside grocery stores.
Leave a huge mess everywhere you go.

LIVE a little.

-Scars

 

[perseverance]

So I wasn't turning her on, coming across as an AFC? I thought so!

Yes, Scars it was at the time I had just discovered this forum, I don't think I had read the book of pook at the time or the DJ bible.

If I remember correctly she hadn't long split up with her boyfriend (I think 3 months before) and probably saw me as the perfect rebound, but I refused to play ball unless she committed to me which is enough to turn anyone off tbh! It was also around the time I thought I wanted a relationship so refused to get jiggy with this girl, but I have come long way since then. I just didn't know what she meant by it and also because Jariel posted a thread about women not taking him seriously enough, so I guess it's all about finding that balance between not taking things too seriously, but not becoming a Jester.

 

[Drdeee]

You gotta be brought down to reality, theyll have a bf they love, then they'll get banged by random strangers from facebook and street, then they'll go out with their girlfriends and get banged some more.

Serious = clueless