I don't know if you're going off of that one comment or taking a lot of factors into account in reaching your conclusion. If it is the former, you're blowing it WAY out of proportion. Sometimes girls genuinely like it when you do nice things for them. It might have been a sincere compliment.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
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Energizer
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It's a pet hate that's why. Cute I can grit my teeth at because I look younger than I actually am, but nice and sweet is just not me, so therefore I'm giving off a false trait. I might consider recontacting that girl, I will have to see. I don't like going back on my decisions because that is a sign of a weak mentality. That said every girl that has called me sweet has either LJFB'd me or went NC on me.Lexington said:
And what I have discovered is that women seldom use these three words in particular sweet about someone they're attracted too. Of course there might be a woman or two who are different. I don't see women calling Usher sweet or nice, do you?
I get called "you're sweet" by women that likely aren't interested in me sexually, but have done much to help me socially, like being my social proof. Some I never meet again but no biggie.
Stop getting your panties in a twist. No woman owes you sex.
Now, work on how you present yourself, and see if you can turn that into "you're a cheeky devil!", "you're too much!", "you're impossible!" - those are the kind of phrases I hear from women I've slept with.
Stop getting your panties in a twist. No woman owes you sex.
Now, work on how you present yourself, and see if you can turn that into "you're a cheeky devil!", "you're too much!", "you're impossible!" - those are the kind of phrases I hear from women I've slept with.
WaterTiger
Master Don Juan
You're missing a great way to show your sexuallity. Instead of getting angry about it, try turning it around on her.
"I'm sweet? Does that mean you're going to eat me like candy?"
"So, will you lick me like a lollipop?"
"Most women say that AFTER sex."
"I'm sweet? Does that mean you're going to eat me like candy?"
"So, will you lick me like a lollipop?"
"Most women say that AFTER sex."
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
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Whoa, this is triple platinum! Rep for you!WaterTiger said:
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GIRL: You're sweet
You say...
YOU: Yeah, but I totally have a hidden agenda
or
YOU: And you're well-trained
or
YOU: I'm a lot of things
or
YOU: Hey girl, I put my pants on just like you...one leg at a time
Do ya get it?
You say...
YOU: Yeah, but I totally have a hidden agenda
or
YOU: And you're well-trained
or
YOU: I'm a lot of things
or
YOU: Hey girl, I put my pants on just like you...one leg at a time
Do ya get it?