I don't know if you're going off of that one comment or taking a lot of factors into account in reaching your conclusion. If it is the former, you're blowing it WAY out of proportion. Sometimes girls genuinely like it when you do nice things for them. It might have been a sincere compliment.
“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
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It's a pet hate that's why. Cute I can grit my teeth at because I look younger than I actually am, but nice and sweet is just not me, so therefore I'm giving off a false trait. I might consider recontacting that girl, I will have to see. I don't like going back on my decisions because that is a sign of a weak mentality. That said every girl that has called me sweet has either LJFB'd me or went NC on me.Lexington said:
And what I have discovered is that women seldom use these three words in particular sweet about someone they're attracted too. Of course there might be a woman or two who are different. I don't see women calling Usher sweet or nice, do you?
I get called "you're sweet" by women that likely aren't interested in me sexually, but have done much to help me socially, like being my social proof. Some I never meet again but no biggie.
Stop getting your panties in a twist. No woman owes you sex.
Now, work on how you present yourself, and see if you can turn that into "you're a cheeky devil!", "you're too much!", "you're impossible!" - those are the kind of phrases I hear from women I've slept with.
Stop getting your panties in a twist. No woman owes you sex.
Now, work on how you present yourself, and see if you can turn that into "you're a cheeky devil!", "you're too much!", "you're impossible!" - those are the kind of phrases I hear from women I've slept with.
WaterTiger
Master Don Juan
You're missing a great way to show your sexuallity. Instead of getting angry about it, try turning it around on her.
"I'm sweet? Does that mean you're going to eat me like candy?"
"So, will you lick me like a lollipop?"
"Most women say that AFTER sex."
"I'm sweet? Does that mean you're going to eat me like candy?"
"So, will you lick me like a lollipop?"
"Most women say that AFTER sex."
“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
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Whoa, this is triple platinum! Rep for you!WaterTiger said:
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GIRL: You're sweet
You say...
YOU: Yeah, but I totally have a hidden agenda
or
YOU: And you're well-trained
or
YOU: I'm a lot of things
or
YOU: Hey girl, I put my pants on just like you...one leg at a time
Do ya get it?
You say...
YOU: Yeah, but I totally have a hidden agenda
or
YOU: And you're well-trained
or
YOU: I'm a lot of things
or
YOU: Hey girl, I put my pants on just like you...one leg at a time
Do ya get it?