I don't know if you're going off of that one comment or taking a lot of factors into account in reaching your conclusion. If it is the former, you're blowing it WAY out of proportion. Sometimes girls genuinely like it when you do nice things for them. It might have been a sincere compliment.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
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It's a pet hate that's why. Cute I can grit my teeth at because I look younger than I actually am, but nice and sweet is just not me, so therefore I'm giving off a false trait. I might consider recontacting that girl, I will have to see. I don't like going back on my decisions because that is a sign of a weak mentality. That said every girl that has called me sweet has either LJFB'd me or went NC on me.Lexington said:
And what I have discovered is that women seldom use these three words in particular sweet about someone they're attracted too. Of course there might be a woman or two who are different. I don't see women calling Usher sweet or nice, do you?
I get called "you're sweet" by women that likely aren't interested in me sexually, but have done much to help me socially, like being my social proof. Some I never meet again but no biggie.
Stop getting your panties in a twist. No woman owes you sex.
Now, work on how you present yourself, and see if you can turn that into "you're a cheeky devil!", "you're too much!", "you're impossible!" - those are the kind of phrases I hear from women I've slept with.
Stop getting your panties in a twist. No woman owes you sex.
Now, work on how you present yourself, and see if you can turn that into "you're a cheeky devil!", "you're too much!", "you're impossible!" - those are the kind of phrases I hear from women I've slept with.
WaterTiger
Master Don Juan
You're missing a great way to show your sexuallity. Instead of getting angry about it, try turning it around on her.
"I'm sweet? Does that mean you're going to eat me like candy?"
"So, will you lick me like a lollipop?"
"Most women say that AFTER sex."
"I'm sweet? Does that mean you're going to eat me like candy?"
"So, will you lick me like a lollipop?"
"Most women say that AFTER sex."
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
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Whoa, this is triple platinum! Rep for you!WaterTiger said:
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GIRL: You're sweet
You say...
YOU: Yeah, but I totally have a hidden agenda
or
YOU: And you're well-trained
or
YOU: I'm a lot of things
or
YOU: Hey girl, I put my pants on just like you...one leg at a time
Do ya get it?
You say...
YOU: Yeah, but I totally have a hidden agenda
or
YOU: And you're well-trained
or
YOU: I'm a lot of things
or
YOU: Hey girl, I put my pants on just like you...one leg at a time
Do ya get it?