She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Well,if you're a newborn baby,then yeah,it's a positive sign.BongDuy said:
You shouldn't be responding to it at all,because if shouldn't have ever come up in the first place.BongDuy said:whats a funny way to respond to this? i am clueless
".BongDuy said:Is this a good sign? When a girl looks at you and says " aww look at him! hes so cute when he smiles like that!!!"
Positive sign? whats a funny way to respond to this? i am clueless
Igetit! said:Well,if you're a newborn baby,then yeah,it's a positive sign.
Other than that,it's NOT something you'd want to hear from a girl you're interested in.
You shouldn't be responding to it at all,because if shouldn't have ever come up in the first place.
If a girl says this to you,then you screwed up somewhere prior.
What in the world did you say to her to get this kind of reaction anyway?
To me,this is kind of a distraction.
As long as she's telling you you're "cute" or "adorable,you can't ask her out.
It's like,"you're cute". "You're sooo adorable". Then while you're distracted by the compliment,she goes,"Ok,I gotta run. By
Don't be fooled by these "lines".
She's not feeling any attraction towards you unless you're being a strong,masculine man,NOT a "cute" little 5 year old.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
zekko said:
girls say stupid meaningless sh1t all the time, its up to you to investigate farther which means you got to step up your game.Well me and my mates do, we even say it, so the said girl hears it.Soprano said:
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
