When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Well,if you're a newborn baby,then yeah,it's a positive sign.BongDuy said:
You shouldn't be responding to it at all,because if shouldn't have ever come up in the first place.BongDuy said:whats a funny way to respond to this? i am clueless
".BongDuy said:Is this a good sign? When a girl looks at you and says " aww look at him! hes so cute when he smiles like that!!!"
Positive sign? whats a funny way to respond to this? i am clueless
Igetit! said:Well,if you're a newborn baby,then yeah,it's a positive sign.
Other than that,it's NOT something you'd want to hear from a girl you're interested in.
You shouldn't be responding to it at all,because if shouldn't have ever come up in the first place.
If a girl says this to you,then you screwed up somewhere prior.
What in the world did you say to her to get this kind of reaction anyway?
To me,this is kind of a distraction.
As long as she's telling you you're "cute" or "adorable,you can't ask her out.
It's like,"you're cute". "You're sooo adorable". Then while you're distracted by the compliment,she goes,"Ok,I gotta run. By
Don't be fooled by these "lines".
She's not feeling any attraction towards you unless you're being a strong,masculine man,NOT a "cute" little 5 year old.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
zekko said:
girls say stupid meaningless sh1t all the time, its up to you to investigate farther which means you got to step up your game.Well me and my mates do, we even say it, so the said girl hears it.Soprano said:
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
