I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Well,if you're a newborn baby,then yeah,it's a positive sign.BongDuy said:
You shouldn't be responding to it at all,because if shouldn't have ever come up in the first place.BongDuy said:whats a funny way to respond to this? i am clueless
".BongDuy said:Is this a good sign? When a girl looks at you and says " aww look at him! hes so cute when he smiles like that!!!"
Positive sign? whats a funny way to respond to this? i am clueless
Igetit! said:Well,if you're a newborn baby,then yeah,it's a positive sign.
Other than that,it's NOT something you'd want to hear from a girl you're interested in.
You shouldn't be responding to it at all,because if shouldn't have ever come up in the first place.
If a girl says this to you,then you screwed up somewhere prior.
What in the world did you say to her to get this kind of reaction anyway?
To me,this is kind of a distraction.
As long as she's telling you you're "cute" or "adorable,you can't ask her out.
It's like,"you're cute". "You're sooo adorable". Then while you're distracted by the compliment,she goes,"Ok,I gotta run. By
Don't be fooled by these "lines".
She's not feeling any attraction towards you unless you're being a strong,masculine man,NOT a "cute" little 5 year old.
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
zekko said:
girls say stupid meaningless sh1t all the time, its up to you to investigate farther which means you got to step up your game.Well me and my mates do, we even say it, so the said girl hears it.Soprano said:
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
