"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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"You're so funny!" *lolololol*

Kev07

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This must be one of the least things that i want to hear come out of a girl's mouth. you might be wondoring what could possibly be so bad about being funny, but i have gotten this so many times and each time i just don't know how to respond to this. It's a pretty stupid comment, because if you laugh then that should already be enough of an indication that you think that i'm funny.

Usually I just return with either "hah, thanks" or i might just ignore it and continue the conversation.

how would you respond to something like this?



This must be the reason why no DJ in their right minds would recommend giving "you're hot" types of compliments.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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This reminds me of when I was a Freshmen in High School and this girl found me to be THE funniest human being in the entire world. She absolutely loved listening to me talk and would sit next to me and start rubbing her leg against me as I would go on (Unfortunately I was an AFC and my friend had one-itis with her).

Er, yeah. Anyway whenever she told me that "You're so funny" I'd usually just smile and keep on talking. I never found it to be an awkward thing, I just remember enjoying the boost to my ego.
 

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well it doesnt make my situations nervous ever, and i'm beyond getting an ego boost for that(just about any girl i talk with for more than 5 minutes throws this at me)

i'm just wondoring if anyone has any ****y responses to this (it should be so easy to make a response to this, i do not know why i can't)
 

i am me

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ya man i usually jus smile...im not even that funny around the guys, i can make women laugh for some reason tho....
 

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HER: "You're so funny!"

ME: "You forgot awesome too."
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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If she tells you you're funny then that's a compliment. If she compliments you then she likes you. Duhh..
 

Kev07

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i am me, women laugh at just about anything.

incog, thanks, i can't beleave i didn't think of that

and JP, compliments are sometimes just there, if every girl that told me i'm funny liked me, wow that's a lot of girls liking me. I know it is not as simple as that.
 

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It is as simple as that. There are no accidents with women. They are not going to continually tell you you're funny for no reason. They are too self absorbed for that.
 

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I always use the line from Goodfellas work's like a charm:

Girl: Your'e so funny!

Me: What do you mean I am funny?

Girl: you tell funny jokes.

Me: So what am I like a clown? am I here to amuse you?!
 
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