"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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"You're not romantic enough"....

Drex

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I'm at the point in a relationship where I need to be more romantic besides the wining and dining.

What are some of your thoughtful/romantic gestures that could be used by fellow DJs?

One time I broke into my GF's house (didnt have a key) and replaced a vase full of dying flowers with a huge bouquet of new flowers that I picked out myself at an (expensive!) flower shop. This was during the day before she was having one of those Tastfully Simple parties with all her girlfriends that night. I wrote a note next to the vase and said something like "you cant host a party with dead flowers, have fun tonight!"

I guess that's not really something anyone could just do at any time though. I am looking for new ideas, I am on a dry streak! :p
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Desdinova

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First of all, how long have you been with her?

Second, if you're going to add some romance to the relationship, don't overdo it. Romance is a spice, not a main course.

Use your creativity. If you combine ****y/funny into romance, you won't come across as a pu55y. Tuck her into bed when she's tired just like you would a child. Have a romantic candlelit happy meal from McDonalds, give her gag gifts on special occasions that reflect something you've talked about.

Or you could just use plain romance. Brush her hair, give her a foot rub, buy her chocolate when she's on her period, cook her dinner.

Again, don't overwhelm her with romance, just do something every once in a while.
 

Drex

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Originally posted by Desdinova

Again, don't overwhelm her with romance, just do something every once in a while.
Right, I know this. I havent really done anything in a while though.
 

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Originally posted by Drex
I'm at the point in a relationship where I need to be more romantic besides the wining and dining.

What are some of your thoughtful/romantic gestures that could be used by fellow DJs?

One time I broke into my GF's house (didnt have a key) and replaced a vase full of dying flowers with a huge bouquet of new flowers that I picked out myself at an (expensive!) flower shop. This was during the day before she was having one of those Tastfully Simple parties with all her girlfriends that night. I wrote a note next to the vase and said something like "you cant host a party with dead flowers, have fun tonight!"

I guess that's not really something anyone could just do at any time though. I am looking for new ideas, I am on a dry streak! :p
if you got caught by police, you would be so happy about that now would you, lol so how did you brake in?
 
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