“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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"You're not romantic enough"....

Drex

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I'm at the point in a relationship where I need to be more romantic besides the wining and dining.

What are some of your thoughtful/romantic gestures that could be used by fellow DJs?

One time I broke into my GF's house (didnt have a key) and replaced a vase full of dying flowers with a huge bouquet of new flowers that I picked out myself at an (expensive!) flower shop. This was during the day before she was having one of those Tastfully Simple parties with all her girlfriends that night. I wrote a note next to the vase and said something like "you cant host a party with dead flowers, have fun tonight!"

I guess that's not really something anyone could just do at any time though. I am looking for new ideas, I am on a dry streak! :p
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Desdinova

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First of all, how long have you been with her?

Second, if you're going to add some romance to the relationship, don't overdo it. Romance is a spice, not a main course.

Use your creativity. If you combine ****y/funny into romance, you won't come across as a pu55y. Tuck her into bed when she's tired just like you would a child. Have a romantic candlelit happy meal from McDonalds, give her gag gifts on special occasions that reflect something you've talked about.

Or you could just use plain romance. Brush her hair, give her a foot rub, buy her chocolate when she's on her period, cook her dinner.

Again, don't overwhelm her with romance, just do something every once in a while.
 

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Originally posted by Desdinova

Again, don't overwhelm her with romance, just do something every once in a while.
Right, I know this. I havent really done anything in a while though.
 

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Originally posted by Drex
I'm at the point in a relationship where I need to be more romantic besides the wining and dining.

What are some of your thoughtful/romantic gestures that could be used by fellow DJs?

One time I broke into my GF's house (didnt have a key) and replaced a vase full of dying flowers with a huge bouquet of new flowers that I picked out myself at an (expensive!) flower shop. This was during the day before she was having one of those Tastfully Simple parties with all her girlfriends that night. I wrote a note next to the vase and said something like "you cant host a party with dead flowers, have fun tonight!"

I guess that's not really something anyone could just do at any time though. I am looking for new ideas, I am on a dry streak! :p
if you got caught by police, you would be so happy about that now would you, lol so how did you brake in?
 
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