"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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"You're not romantic enough"....

Drex

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I'm at the point in a relationship where I need to be more romantic besides the wining and dining.

What are some of your thoughtful/romantic gestures that could be used by fellow DJs?

One time I broke into my GF's house (didnt have a key) and replaced a vase full of dying flowers with a huge bouquet of new flowers that I picked out myself at an (expensive!) flower shop. This was during the day before she was having one of those Tastfully Simple parties with all her girlfriends that night. I wrote a note next to the vase and said something like "you cant host a party with dead flowers, have fun tonight!"

I guess that's not really something anyone could just do at any time though. I am looking for new ideas, I am on a dry streak! :p
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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First of all, how long have you been with her?

Second, if you're going to add some romance to the relationship, don't overdo it. Romance is a spice, not a main course.

Use your creativity. If you combine ****y/funny into romance, you won't come across as a pu55y. Tuck her into bed when she's tired just like you would a child. Have a romantic candlelit happy meal from McDonalds, give her gag gifts on special occasions that reflect something you've talked about.

Or you could just use plain romance. Brush her hair, give her a foot rub, buy her chocolate when she's on her period, cook her dinner.

Again, don't overwhelm her with romance, just do something every once in a while.
 

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Originally posted by Desdinova

Again, don't overwhelm her with romance, just do something every once in a while.
Right, I know this. I havent really done anything in a while though.
 

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Originally posted by Drex
I'm at the point in a relationship where I need to be more romantic besides the wining and dining.

What are some of your thoughtful/romantic gestures that could be used by fellow DJs?

One time I broke into my GF's house (didnt have a key) and replaced a vase full of dying flowers with a huge bouquet of new flowers that I picked out myself at an (expensive!) flower shop. This was during the day before she was having one of those Tastfully Simple parties with all her girlfriends that night. I wrote a note next to the vase and said something like "you cant host a party with dead flowers, have fun tonight!"

I guess that's not really something anyone could just do at any time though. I am looking for new ideas, I am on a dry streak! :p
if you got caught by police, you would be so happy about that now would you, lol so how did you brake in?
 
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