"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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"you're funny"

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In your experience, when women whip out this line within the very first three convos you have with her, is this an IOI or a friendzone move?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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If she says it after 3 conversations it means you're in the friend zone. If she says it after 4, it means she wants to bang.

Dude, who knows what it means. Maybe it means that you're funny. If you like her, you gotta escalate. Stop playing it safe, looking for little meaningless signs. Grab your balls and dive in.
 
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Hahaha. C'mon, someone has gotta have some observations on this. Do girls say to Brad Pitt in the first 3 dates, "you're funny."
 
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meh, worrying about it will only make it worse, but generally speaking you don't want to be labelled as "the funny guy". Being funny is great, but it should not be your main attribute. So maybe ease on the jokes and put on the sexy ;)
 
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Yeah I def don't wanna come off as "the clown." But actually, the girls are saying this in response to negs. It's really weird cus it's not the typical visceral girly reaction of them hitting me on the arm and laughing hysterically.

It's more like, they smirk and analyze me in a very logical way, "you're funny." There's gotta be other guys who have been in my shoes.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I think you ve just qualified for her and are ready to build rapport. At this point it's make it or break it, as she is about to decide in which category you are gonna fall. Just be sexual if you dont want her to be just a friend.
 
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Well, you know, you gotta judge for yourself. Do you get anywhere with the girls who react this way?
 
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Surely you've got to know if she fancies you, right? The only person who knows what she means is her. And you're the only person that knows her - and thus can judge context...so you tell us.

If she's saying "you're funny" to your penis though...this probably isn't a great thing. On the plus side you'll probably still get to do her. On the negative side she might be singing Disney songs whilst you do.
 
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you're funny is a timid way to say i like you
( but just in case, try to regulate the amount of silly jokes you make. It's often really anoying to me guys that jsut keep making jokes and then laugh to it saying ahhhh i'm just messing with ya. It just makes me walk away. Guys that like you but try to making themselve look like they don't care teasing you like a 8yo. So unsexy. Most of the time they are like even 25 and convinced that's the way to make girls fall but It makes me imagine he would do the same during sex and brrrr gives me bad shivers)
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I knew somebody was going to do it sooner or later :D
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Oh yes i love this scene. Actually a couple of guys have answered to me funny how?? and then we acted out the the rest of the scene.

You know, the way you tell the story, you're funny, you're a funny guy!
 
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BBbardot said:
Oh yes i love this scene. Actually a couple of guys have answered to me funny how?? and then we acted out the the rest of the scene.

You know, the way you tell the story, you're funny, you're a funny guy!
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Props for recognizing Scorsese flicks especially Goodfellas. As george carlin said, Joe Pesci seems like he would be a good god since he would get **** done.

Let's over-analyse the sh*t out of this and base the rest of our life based on the conclusion!

STOP OVER-ANALYSING FOR F*CKS SAKE!

NOW GO HOME AND GET YOUR ****ING SHINEBOX!!
 
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synergy1 said:
NOW GO HOME AND GET YOUR ****ING SHINEBOX!!
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LOLLL
that's gona get you killed in a car trunk, watch it:)
now dance for me dance you stuteting prick

and yes tommy got **** done but it doesn't do him well in the end...
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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piday314 said:
In your experience, when women whip out this line within the very first three convos you have with her, is this an IOI or a friendzone move?
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I don't think it's an IOI or sign of friendzone in it of itself. You are reading into it too much. If she is physically attracted to you, funny is a plus. If she is not physically attracted to you, being funny just makes you a cool friend to talk to.

At worst, if you overdo the funny, you become the try-hard dancing monkey, and that is a turn off.
 
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synergy1 said:
Let's over-analyse the sh*t out of this and base the rest of our life based on the conclusion!

STOP OVER-ANALYSING FOR F*CKS SAKE!

NOW GO HOME AND GET YOUR ****ING SHINEBOX!!
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by the way, why are you screaming at me :$ i haven't done anything:$



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