"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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"You're Cute!"

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How often are you complimented on your appearance? As in you're: "cute," "pretty," "beautiful," "adorable," "fantastic (looking)," "hot," "gorgeous," "sexy?" I'm not talking about from friends/family, but from girls you've just met. Either girls you've approached or girls approaching you.

OK, this is a bit of a vanity thread, but I'm curious as to how frequently this happens to you all. Once a month, twice a month, once a week? Everyday???? LOL. But seriously, don't exaggerate and give a real figure. Do girls throw these comments out at random, just to toy with male minds?

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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Every show bro... haha, every single show (2-3 times a week). But you have to factor in drunkenness and dim lighting and general horniness to that!


Outside as a civilian, I don't know...but nothing even close to that!
 

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I don't get them out of nowhere, i.e. first few minutes of conversation. After chatting to a girl for a while in a bar, I sometimes get "handsome" and "good looking" thrown at me. I'd say about once a week.
 

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I just got a "You're so damn hot!" from a guy standing in line where I work so I must do something completly wrong :)
 

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Lifeforce said:
I just got a "You're so damn hot!" from a guy standing in line where I work so I must do something completly wrong :)
Thats hilarious!!! :crackup:
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Fuglydude said:
Thats hilarious!!! :crackup:
Exactly what the other costumers thought who was standing in the line behind him :p
 

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I gotten more comments from guys... maybe girls are to shy to say anything or i run into alotta queers
 

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Whats' the funniest/cheesiest/weirdest pick up line anyone has ever hit u with?
 

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"You're cute" isn't really a compliment. It's a nicer way of her laughing at your pathetic attempts.
 

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Point Blank said:
"You're cute" isn't really a compliment. It's a nicer way of her laughing at your pathetic attempts.
I disagree... to me when I call a girl cute it means she has more going for her than just looks alone, and that in many ways "cute" which to me is a desirable combination of looks, personality and intelligence.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Point Blank said:
"You're cute" isn't really a compliment. It's a nicer way of her laughing at your pathetic attempts.

Not true at all. If a girl asks another girl what she thinks about a particular guy and she responds with "he's cute." It most likely means he's average but nothing great.

However, if a girl walks up to the guy and says that at some point of their conversation then its her way of saying she wants your nutz. Its all about the way the girl says it and in what context.

I don't go out as much as I use to, but I get the sexy, cute, hot, good looking compliments on a pretty regular basis..... :D



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