Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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"You're Cute!"

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How often are you complimented on your appearance? As in you're: "cute," "pretty," "beautiful," "adorable," "fantastic (looking)," "hot," "gorgeous," "sexy?" I'm not talking about from friends/family, but from girls you've just met. Either girls you've approached or girls approaching you.

OK, this is a bit of a vanity thread, but I'm curious as to how frequently this happens to you all. Once a month, twice a month, once a week? Everyday???? LOL. But seriously, don't exaggerate and give a real figure. Do girls throw these comments out at random, just to toy with male minds?

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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Every show bro... haha, every single show (2-3 times a week). But you have to factor in drunkenness and dim lighting and general horniness to that!


Outside as a civilian, I don't know...but nothing even close to that!
 

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I don't get them out of nowhere, i.e. first few minutes of conversation. After chatting to a girl for a while in a bar, I sometimes get "handsome" and "good looking" thrown at me. I'd say about once a week.
 

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I just got a "You're so damn hot!" from a guy standing in line where I work so I must do something completly wrong :)
 

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Lifeforce said:
I just got a "You're so damn hot!" from a guy standing in line where I work so I must do something completly wrong :)
Thats hilarious!!! :crackup:
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Fuglydude said:
Thats hilarious!!! :crackup:
Exactly what the other costumers thought who was standing in the line behind him :p
 

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I gotten more comments from guys... maybe girls are to shy to say anything or i run into alotta queers
 

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Whats' the funniest/cheesiest/weirdest pick up line anyone has ever hit u with?
 

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"You're cute" isn't really a compliment. It's a nicer way of her laughing at your pathetic attempts.
 

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Point Blank said:
"You're cute" isn't really a compliment. It's a nicer way of her laughing at your pathetic attempts.
I disagree... to me when I call a girl cute it means she has more going for her than just looks alone, and that in many ways "cute" which to me is a desirable combination of looks, personality and intelligence.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Point Blank said:
"You're cute" isn't really a compliment. It's a nicer way of her laughing at your pathetic attempts.

Not true at all. If a girl asks another girl what she thinks about a particular guy and she responds with "he's cute." It most likely means he's average but nothing great.

However, if a girl walks up to the guy and says that at some point of their conversation then its her way of saying she wants your nutz. Its all about the way the girl says it and in what context.

I don't go out as much as I use to, but I get the sexy, cute, hot, good looking compliments on a pretty regular basis..... :D



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