Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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"You're Cute!"

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How often are you complimented on your appearance? As in you're: "cute," "pretty," "beautiful," "adorable," "fantastic (looking)," "hot," "gorgeous," "sexy?" I'm not talking about from friends/family, but from girls you've just met. Either girls you've approached or girls approaching you.

OK, this is a bit of a vanity thread, but I'm curious as to how frequently this happens to you all. Once a month, twice a month, once a week? Everyday???? LOL. But seriously, don't exaggerate and give a real figure. Do girls throw these comments out at random, just to toy with male minds?

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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Every show bro... haha, every single show (2-3 times a week). But you have to factor in drunkenness and dim lighting and general horniness to that!


Outside as a civilian, I don't know...but nothing even close to that!
 
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I don't get them out of nowhere, i.e. first few minutes of conversation. After chatting to a girl for a while in a bar, I sometimes get "handsome" and "good looking" thrown at me. I'd say about once a week.
 
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I just got a "You're so damn hot!" from a guy standing in line where I work so I must do something completly wrong :)
 
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Lifeforce said:
I just got a "You're so damn hot!" from a guy standing in line where I work so I must do something completly wrong :)
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Thats hilarious!!! :crackup:
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Fuglydude said:
Thats hilarious!!! :crackup:
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Exactly what the other costumers thought who was standing in the line behind him :p
 
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I gotten more comments from guys... maybe girls are to shy to say anything or i run into alotta queers
 
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Whats' the funniest/cheesiest/weirdest pick up line anyone has ever hit u with?
 
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"You're cute" isn't really a compliment. It's a nicer way of her laughing at your pathetic attempts.
 
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Point Blank said:
"You're cute" isn't really a compliment. It's a nicer way of her laughing at your pathetic attempts.
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I disagree... to me when I call a girl cute it means she has more going for her than just looks alone, and that in many ways "cute" which to me is a desirable combination of looks, personality and intelligence.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Point Blank said:
"You're cute" isn't really a compliment. It's a nicer way of her laughing at your pathetic attempts.
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Not true at all. If a girl asks another girl what she thinks about a particular guy and she responds with "he's cute." It most likely means he's average but nothing great.

However, if a girl walks up to the guy and says that at some point of their conversation then its her way of saying she wants your nutz. Its all about the way the girl says it and in what context.

I don't go out as much as I use to, but I get the sexy, cute, hot, good looking compliments on a pretty regular basis..... :D



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