"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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S.Y.L

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What do I respond back to this? I always joke around, and a lot of chicks start saying this.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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cw92

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S.Y.L said:
What do I respond back to this? I always joke around, and a lot of chicks start saying this.
"Its not ****iness, its confidence."
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Say..."Well, you're vagina-y! How do you like that, eh?" I did this once and it put me back on top. I plan on using it more. One I did before that got a lot of postivie feedback was, "I'm not ****y, I'm just awesome."

Hope you can use these or something else that'll put you back on top and make you the prize
 

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Tell her you resent being called that. Tons of guys are ****y. ****iness is when you're confident for it's own sake or because you don't know any better. If you were ****y, you may or may not be worth it. Since, as you both know you're better than 90% of the guys out there, when you say you're the sh1t, it's fact, not bluster.
 

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"well, you may not have heard, but I am kinda a big deal. I wake up in the morning and piss excellance." With a complete straight face. Thankyou Ron Burgundy
 

guywhoneedshelp

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Just say ok. No need to start a whole conversation about ****iness.

Unless you wanna break into a routine of "oh my god ****y that reminds me of my one friend ____ (control frame)"
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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most of the responses are already good but dude from my personal experience that indicates that you are trying too hard to show confidence. variants I've gotten include "arrogant" "full of yourself" and "big ego"
 

JDA70

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I always joke around, and a lot of chicks start saying this.
Don't worry about it. Your ok. If a chick says your ****y
then say "you know it". Don't start sweating a chick
just because she starts stomping her feet.
But on the other side don't be a complete jerk.
 
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