"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Your ****y

S.Y.L

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What do I respond back to this? I always joke around, and a lot of chicks start saying this.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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cw92

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S.Y.L said:
What do I respond back to this? I always joke around, and a lot of chicks start saying this.
"Its not ****iness, its confidence."
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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CP3WOO

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Say..."Well, you're vagina-y! How do you like that, eh?" I did this once and it put me back on top. I plan on using it more. One I did before that got a lot of postivie feedback was, "I'm not ****y, I'm just awesome."

Hope you can use these or something else that'll put you back on top and make you the prize
 

CyranoDeBergerac

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Tell her you resent being called that. Tons of guys are ****y. ****iness is when you're confident for it's own sake or because you don't know any better. If you were ****y, you may or may not be worth it. Since, as you both know you're better than 90% of the guys out there, when you say you're the sh1t, it's fact, not bluster.
 

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"well, you may not have heard, but I am kinda a big deal. I wake up in the morning and piss excellance." With a complete straight face. Thankyou Ron Burgundy
 

guywhoneedshelp

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Just say ok. No need to start a whole conversation about ****iness.

Unless you wanna break into a routine of "oh my god ****y that reminds me of my one friend ____ (control frame)"
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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LostAndConfused

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most of the responses are already good but dude from my personal experience that indicates that you are trying too hard to show confidence. variants I've gotten include "arrogant" "full of yourself" and "big ego"
 

JDA70

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I always joke around, and a lot of chicks start saying this.
Don't worry about it. Your ok. If a chick says your ****y
then say "you know it". Don't start sweating a chick
just because she starts stomping her feet.
But on the other side don't be a complete jerk.
 
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