"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Your ****y

S.Y.L

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What do I respond back to this? I always joke around, and a lot of chicks start saying this.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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cw92

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S.Y.L said:
What do I respond back to this? I always joke around, and a lot of chicks start saying this.
"Its not ****iness, its confidence."
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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CP3WOO

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Say..."Well, you're vagina-y! How do you like that, eh?" I did this once and it put me back on top. I plan on using it more. One I did before that got a lot of postivie feedback was, "I'm not ****y, I'm just awesome."

Hope you can use these or something else that'll put you back on top and make you the prize
 

CyranoDeBergerac

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Tell her you resent being called that. Tons of guys are ****y. ****iness is when you're confident for it's own sake or because you don't know any better. If you were ****y, you may or may not be worth it. Since, as you both know you're better than 90% of the guys out there, when you say you're the sh1t, it's fact, not bluster.
 

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"well, you may not have heard, but I am kinda a big deal. I wake up in the morning and piss excellance." With a complete straight face. Thankyou Ron Burgundy
 

guywhoneedshelp

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Just say ok. No need to start a whole conversation about ****iness.

Unless you wanna break into a routine of "oh my god ****y that reminds me of my one friend ____ (control frame)"
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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LostAndConfused

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most of the responses are already good but dude from my personal experience that indicates that you are trying too hard to show confidence. variants I've gotten include "arrogant" "full of yourself" and "big ego"
 

JDA70

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I always joke around, and a lot of chicks start saying this.
Don't worry about it. Your ok. If a chick says your ****y
then say "you know it". Don't start sweating a chick
just because she starts stomping her feet.
But on the other side don't be a complete jerk.
 
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