"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Your Worst AFC mistakes And How you Learned From Them

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I need someone to help me Because I have Faiiled so deeply It sickens me I misinterpretade a clients impression to me at a workplace. She told me she left her number on hr check and I like a Dumbass Took ti to mean she wanted ME to call her. So I did...
Now I may lose my Job or she says she wants to press criminal charges....
All for a stupid Misinterpretaion and fcking Miscommunication. I feel sooo Low so Stupid and soo Damn Hopeless My record may tainted for this damn crap If I get prosecuted I may get kicked Out of School I dont even know.
Im done with the Worrying, I just Want you guys to share situations similar to these and How you Overcame them
Peace out
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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WORKEROUTER

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All you did was call her? Just tell her there was some misinterpretation...I don't see the problem here.
 

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Nor do I. Its Just she is apparently a Drama Queen. Because Even ma employers were calm about it and saw that it was a simple misinterpretation. Apparently she just sounds like she wants money or is going for Blood. Some ppl are like that I guess. But nonethe less I still want to hear some testimonies of WORST mistakes or tales of rejections Guys
Peace Out
 

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My post is not any AFC Mistakes to boost your confidence, however, you did nothing wrong. Miscommunication. She left her number and you called. There's nothing illegal about that.
 

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Man, just play it cool, tell her it was a misunderstanding. :cool:
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Actually, don't contact her. If she wants to play hardball, then so be it- she'll only get to watch her case fall apart in court.
 

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Your worst AFC mistake is using the acronym AFC on a thread that has nothing to do with exhibiting AFC behavior, just for the sakes of using the term AFC.

Why did she give you the number?
 

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She left her number on the check guys. When I called my method of Approach was wrong. I told her I got the number from the check which gave the image I stole it and no that I thought She wanted me to take it. Her boyfrend sounded veery thuggish so He was pissed. It seems that he is pushing it more than she is, I dont know
I spoke to a detective just now and he told me that she has No basis to press criminal charges, It was Simple Miscommunication. I agree though I would Loove to hear her agrument in court. But anyway before this happened I was plaiing on working on My Inner game completely. So im going to take a break form this site and go on Living My Life. Im sorry I guess it wasnt an AFC mistake at all. LOL Thanx for the Heads Up.
Butanyhoo the plan is to work oUT ON ALL AREAS of ma life.


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