"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Your views on getting a date set up by someone else?

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SoonToBeDJ

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Hey I was just wondering what you guys thought about some one setting up me and a girl for a date, not a current situation but if it did happen what are your views? Like if a girl I know says she wants to set me and her friend up for a date, what do you think about that? Would I just tell her that I'll set myself up or just let her?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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In my opinion, it's fine if the girl's party sets you up with her. However, I don't think I would do it the other way around.
 
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ya if one of ur guy friends trys to set u up it might be some kinda joke.. or maybe a really hot girl(if it was they wouldnt be trying to set u up with her)
 
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You should definetly set it up yourself, trust me. I remember also reading something by Doc Love that if a friend sets you up it puts you in a really bad position because he's the one that broke the ice and she's probably digging him for his confidence and thinking you're some shy nice guy that she can act all superior to. If you don't really care and have game/looks though it wouldn't matter I think.
 
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