"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Your views on getting a date set up by someone else?

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SoonToBeDJ

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Hey I was just wondering what you guys thought about some one setting up me and a girl for a date, not a current situation but if it did happen what are your views? Like if a girl I know says she wants to set me and her friend up for a date, what do you think about that? Would I just tell her that I'll set myself up or just let her?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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In my opinion, it's fine if the girl's party sets you up with her. However, I don't think I would do it the other way around.
 
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ya if one of ur guy friends trys to set u up it might be some kinda joke.. or maybe a really hot girl(if it was they wouldnt be trying to set u up with her)
 
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You should definetly set it up yourself, trust me. I remember also reading something by Doc Love that if a friend sets you up it puts you in a really bad position because he's the one that broke the ice and she's probably digging him for his confidence and thinking you're some shy nice guy that she can act all superior to. If you don't really care and have game/looks though it wouldn't matter I think.
 
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