"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Your top 10 hottest celebrities/actresses/musicians

Effington

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Controversy sparked as I casually mentioned to a buddy who I thought was, in my mind, the hottest celebrity/actress/music star around. Then we had a debate.

Anyway, I thought it'd be fun to compare lists here. Definitely would like to point out that these are not the hottest women I know, but for the purpose of comparing tastes, you need to pick a group that everyone knows: celebrities. I think that half of the Lovabulls are hotter than these girls, but no one here knows them. So anyway, here are my top 10:

10. Jenna Fischer [LOVE her character Pam in The Office]
9. Nadine Velazquez [Catalina from My Name is Earl, a Chicago girl!]
8. Jennifer Love Hewitt
7. Elisha Cuthbert [24 / Girl Next Door]
6. Halle Berry
5. Scarlett Johansson
4. Meagan Good [Actress, dating Thomas Jones of the NY Jets]
3. Lark Voorhies [Saved by the Bell's Lisa Turtle, more recently in the movie How High]
2. Layla Kayleigh [G4 / World Poker girl, changed her name referencing Clapton's tune!]
1. Christina Milian [R&B musician, acted in the movie Be Cool]

Just missed: Alicia Keys, Shakira, Jessica Simpson [Too hot to exclude but I wouldn't want to talk to her], Eva Longoria, Angelina Jolie [Too mainstream for me].

This came up after the morning radio show had Nick Cannon on, and he discussed his relationship with Milian. He basically said he wanted to (and did) cheat on her openly, and she wasn't cool with that. Cannon just recently married Mariah Carey, after dating for approximately two months. (I believe the two have an 11 year age gap). I hate that man with a passion now.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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BetterThanBond

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meadow from the sopranos

thats all that comes to mid.
 

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The blonde on The Best Damn Sports Show Period. Whatver her name is. She's looks dirty.
 

Crazy Asian

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megan fox
rose mcgowan
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Nadia Bjorlin
Cheryl Cole
 

IPalindromeI

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Scarlett Johansson
Kiera Knightley
Natalie Portman
Angelina Jolie (when she was younger and not looking like a stick figure or pregnant - notice there is no inbetween?)
Halle Berry
Aishwarya Rai
Yifei Liu
Jaime Pressly (in a hot white trash sort of way)
 

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BetterThanBond said:
meadow from the sopranos

thats all that comes to mid.
Agreed.

I had fallen out of watching the Sopranos for a few seasons but then I caught one of the final season's episodes recently and she really really REALLY became an incredible piece of ass. :up:
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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WhitePimp

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My favorite of this month is Kate Hudson. I'd attempt suicide for that piece! :moon:
 

Wodan

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Avril lavigne
Christina Aguillera
Scarlett johansson
 

DJVladdy

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o yea, and also Ava Lauren. Does she count?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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lol young...watch out the girls here will get all butt hurt if they see your post lol.

I gotta say nothing comes close to Scarlett, but a far away third(Scarlett takes 2 spots for me) would have to be ......Lacy chabert.
 

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Scarlett Johansson
Nat Portman
Nicole Kidman
Asia Argento (from XXX w/ Vin Diesal)
Chiaki Kuriyama from Kill Bill, who I get confused with:
Zhang Ziyi from CTHD and Hero and those types of movies.
Shakira
and
Devin Aoki who I first loved as a
model for lines like Baby Phat, but then completely once she got the role in
Sin City.

Yes I have a thing for asians. :D

Jada Pinkett 10 years ago
Lisa Bonet 15 years ago
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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