"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Your Time is YOUR Most Valuable Commodity

CHICAGO27

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Think about this gentlemen.

What is the one thing in this world we cannot buy? We can't buy more time. Our time is a precious depreciating commodity.

With that said, would it be prudent of us to waste that valuable commodity on women who don't meet our expectations? Waste it on fruitless endeavors?

If you are spending your time doing something that doesn't bring you a reward you are throwing that value away.

The problem too many men have is that they don't value themselves. They don't realize that the time we have on this earth is precious.

What do you do with your time is up to you. But you need to think about what you do with your time.

A good use of time is doing an activity that better's yourself. i.e spending a hour at the gym, training for a marathon, enrolling in a class.

A bad use of time is anything that you do that doesn't end in a positive growth in your existence.

Let me let you in on a little secret.

Women value men who value their time spent.

A woman wants to be with a man who fills his life with activities that show he has full command of the time he spends. It shows that a man values himself. A man who doesn't value himself won't care how much time he wastes.

This goes along with dating. Set an IL standard. If she doesn't quite meet that standard direct that time towards someone else. If she starts to realize your value than give her a little more of that time. If not, put it somewhere else where you can get your money's worth.

Gentlemen, our time is the most valuable asset we have. Guard it with your life.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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teddy

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Great post. Everything pretty much boils down to this. Once a man realizes his self-worth, something like this becomes a no-brainer.
 

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Very well said bro. +1
 

CHICAGO27

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I think you reach a point in life that you focus away from getting laid to helping people. Many guys feel alienated and alone out there. They think getting laid will solve all their problems. Yes, getting the girl and getting "laid" is fun and great. But when that wears off more often than not there is still that void inside.

I want men to learn how to be men again. Learn to be strong, self-respecting individuals. Not dependent on how many women they bed but reliant on their own character.

For myself, spending my time spreading my wisdom and providing betterment for others is more valuable than any vagina I can stick my penis into.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Demonpenz

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Yes. You get all your needs filled and you help other people. You get a deeper reward than shoving your man meat into a wet hole.
 

sylvester the cat

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so why are you wasting your precious time writing this thread OP?
 

VladPatton

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Which is exactly why you move on after a girl isn't into you, dumps you, or is disrespectful of you. Or hell, whatever you don't like about her. Don't get stuck out of convenience.
 

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sylvester the cat said:
so why are you wasting your precious time writing this thread OP?
Probably considers helping a community he connects with as time well spent.
 

JaegerPilot217

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CHICAGO27 said:
Think about this gentlemen.

What is the one thing in this world we cannot buy? We can't buy more time. Our time is a precious depreciating commodity.

With that said, would it be prudent of us to waste that valuable commodity on women who don't meet our expectations? Waste it on fruitless endeavors?

If you are spending your time doing something that doesn't bring you a reward you are throwing that value away.

The problem too many men have is that they don't value themselves. They don't realize that the time we have on this earth is precious.

What do you do with your time is up to you. But you need to think about what you do with your time.

A good use of time is doing an activity that better's yourself. i.e spending a hour at the gym, training for a marathon, enrolling in a class.

A bad use of time is anything that you do that doesn't end in a positive growth in your existence.

Let me let you in on a little secret.

Women value men who value their time spent.

A woman wants to be with a man who fills his life with activities that show he has full command of the time he spends. It shows that a man values himself. A man who doesn't value himself won't care how much time he wastes.

This goes along with dating. Set an IL standard. If she doesn't quite meet that standard direct that time towards someone else. If she starts to realize your value than give her a little more of that time. If not, put it somewhere else where you can get your money's worth.

Gentlemen, our time is the most valuable asset we have. Guard it with your life.
To sum it up, women only want men who are an overall better person than they are
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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