"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Your Time is YOUR Most Valuable Commodity

CHICAGO27

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Think about this gentlemen.

What is the one thing in this world we cannot buy? We can't buy more time. Our time is a precious depreciating commodity.

With that said, would it be prudent of us to waste that valuable commodity on women who don't meet our expectations? Waste it on fruitless endeavors?

If you are spending your time doing something that doesn't bring you a reward you are throwing that value away.

The problem too many men have is that they don't value themselves. They don't realize that the time we have on this earth is precious.

What do you do with your time is up to you. But you need to think about what you do with your time.

A good use of time is doing an activity that better's yourself. i.e spending a hour at the gym, training for a marathon, enrolling in a class.

A bad use of time is anything that you do that doesn't end in a positive growth in your existence.

Let me let you in on a little secret.

Women value men who value their time spent.

A woman wants to be with a man who fills his life with activities that show he has full command of the time he spends. It shows that a man values himself. A man who doesn't value himself won't care how much time he wastes.

This goes along with dating. Set an IL standard. If she doesn't quite meet that standard direct that time towards someone else. If she starts to realize your value than give her a little more of that time. If not, put it somewhere else where you can get your money's worth.

Gentlemen, our time is the most valuable asset we have. Guard it with your life.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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teddy

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Great post. Everything pretty much boils down to this. Once a man realizes his self-worth, something like this becomes a no-brainer.
 

adam225

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Very well said bro. +1
 

CHICAGO27

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I think you reach a point in life that you focus away from getting laid to helping people. Many guys feel alienated and alone out there. They think getting laid will solve all their problems. Yes, getting the girl and getting "laid" is fun and great. But when that wears off more often than not there is still that void inside.

I want men to learn how to be men again. Learn to be strong, self-respecting individuals. Not dependent on how many women they bed but reliant on their own character.

For myself, spending my time spreading my wisdom and providing betterment for others is more valuable than any vagina I can stick my penis into.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Demonpenz

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Yes. You get all your needs filled and you help other people. You get a deeper reward than shoving your man meat into a wet hole.
 

sylvester the cat

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so why are you wasting your precious time writing this thread OP?
 

VladPatton

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Which is exactly why you move on after a girl isn't into you, dumps you, or is disrespectful of you. Or hell, whatever you don't like about her. Don't get stuck out of convenience.
 

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sylvester the cat said:
so why are you wasting your precious time writing this thread OP?
Probably considers helping a community he connects with as time well spent.
 

JaegerPilot217

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CHICAGO27 said:
Think about this gentlemen.

What is the one thing in this world we cannot buy? We can't buy more time. Our time is a precious depreciating commodity.

With that said, would it be prudent of us to waste that valuable commodity on women who don't meet our expectations? Waste it on fruitless endeavors?

If you are spending your time doing something that doesn't bring you a reward you are throwing that value away.

The problem too many men have is that they don't value themselves. They don't realize that the time we have on this earth is precious.

What do you do with your time is up to you. But you need to think about what you do with your time.

A good use of time is doing an activity that better's yourself. i.e spending a hour at the gym, training for a marathon, enrolling in a class.

A bad use of time is anything that you do that doesn't end in a positive growth in your existence.

Let me let you in on a little secret.

Women value men who value their time spent.

A woman wants to be with a man who fills his life with activities that show he has full command of the time he spends. It shows that a man values himself. A man who doesn't value himself won't care how much time he wastes.

This goes along with dating. Set an IL standard. If she doesn't quite meet that standard direct that time towards someone else. If she starts to realize your value than give her a little more of that time. If not, put it somewhere else where you can get your money's worth.

Gentlemen, our time is the most valuable asset we have. Guard it with your life.
To sum it up, women only want men who are an overall better person than they are
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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