"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Your thoughts on the latest abortion ruling

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There are medical conditions that make pregnancy a death sentence for some women. But those b!tches can just fvckin die...say the pro life people.
I agree but this is less than 1% of the total abortion cases.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Bokanovsky

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Political theater.
Exactly. This is the biggest non-event ever. The Supreme Court didn’t outlaw abortion. It just said that there is nothing in the Constitution that guarantees abortion as a constitutional right (which is 100% legally correct, as the word ‘abortion’ does not appear anywhere in the Constitution), therefore it’s an issue for the states. People will still have the right to vote for pro-abortion politicians at state level. No one is taking that away.

Roe v. Wade invented a constitutional right that simply didn’t exist. It’s no different than a court deciding that one has the constitutional right to own a car or a smartphone…or to attend college and travel the world. It made no legal sense.
 

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But then why have a federal government at all? The first attempt at this country was a confederacy, and it failed because the states couldn't get along and no one could make them do anything.
National security, monetary policy and regulation of foreign trade are really the only practical purposes for a federal government. Everything else is better handled at state level.
 

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Most people misunderstand the ruling. It does NOT ban abortion in the US. It leaves it up to the states to decide.

There are going to probably be about 15 states that ban it, most in the Midwest Bible Belt. Another 2 or 3 might ban it after 6 weeks. About another 10 are 50/50 that will likely allow some up to 15 weeks. The others it won't make any difference. In fact, some of the other states may expand it further.

There is nothing to stop people from going to a state that allows it if they live in a state that doesn't. There is nothing to stop them from going to Mexico to one of the high end centers that caters to this, especially for those who live in Texas.

IMHO, people are making it a much bigger deal than it will turn out to be. For people who live in a state that bans it, they simply just made it harder and more expensive, but not impossible

 
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Agreed, except for this part. Unlike abortion, gun ownership is actually a constitutional right.
The part that is States' rights is the ability to restrict abortions or not.
 

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I'm wondering how the change in availability of abortion will impact the sexual marketplace in various areas within the United States.

In more middle class+ interactions (mainly 20s/30s people with bachelor's degrees + and white collar jobs), I doubt there's much impact. Most of the women are on birth control. A good portion of men will use condoms. There might be some changes in lower class submarkets in states with less available abortions.
 

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simple: it won’t.

I'm wondering how the change in availability of abortion will impact the sexual marketplace in various areas within the United States.

In more middle class+ interactions (mainly 20s/30s people with bachelor's degrees + and white collar jobs), I doubt there's much impact. Most of the women are on birth control. A good portion of men will use condoms. There might be some changes in lower class submarkets in states with less available abortions.
 

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The economic cost of banning abortion is in the billions. We're all going to pay, because religious nutballs control the Supreme Court. Abortion bans keep women from working and paying taxes, and they end up taking more in social services instead of contributing to the economy.

But everyone here wants more of their tax dollars to go to welfare, right? That's what our Taliban of a Supreme Court is accomplishing.
 

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The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Roe v wade was based on a stack of lies, enough said there. But I am pro choice at the end of the day because if you outlaw anything out will just move to the black market.
 

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The economic cost of banning abortion is in the billions. We're all going to pay, because religious nutballs control the Supreme Court. Abortion bans keep women from working and paying taxes, and they end up taking more in social services instead of contributing to the economy.

But everyone here wants more of their tax dollars to go to welfare, right?
This is hilarious. For a country with a $20 trillion GDP, “billions of dollars” is literally nothing. It’s like $100 to someone who makes $100,000 a year. What a joke.
 

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I think there has to be some change involved. Why do you say no change at all?
Because birth control of all types. People who get knocked up are simply imbeciles. They will not go away. They're part of it all.
 

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Because birth control of all types. People who get knocked up are simply imbeciles. They will not go away. They're part of it all.
I have been participating in the mating environment for 20+ years. I have not had a pregnancy scare. The majority of women I have had sex with were using birth control while they were having sex with me. I had sex with a few women who didn't use any birth control. I used condoms. It wasn't an issue at all.

I used condoms with both women who used birth control and women who didn't use it.

Iron Rule of Tomassi #5
NEVER allow a woman to be in control of the birth.

I was using condoms all the time before I ever heard of this iron rule.
 

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This is hilarious. For a country with a $20 trillion GDP, “billions of dollars” is literally nothing. It’s like $100 to someone who makes $100,000 a year. What a joke.
Fine, trillions. The truth is that no one knows, because this is unprecedented stupidity. Letting the church run the state is the way of life in Iran, Afghanistan, and everywhere they have sharia law. They are our new role models.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Because birth control of all types. People who get knocked up are simply imbeciles. They will not go away. They're part of it all.
You do know that smoking makes the pill not work, right? It also happens from secondhand smoke for women who have to work around smokers in bars and restaurants.
 

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if something is unconstitutional, can’t they just amend the constitution?
The extent to which all the states must agree, as well as congress, makes it nearly impossible to amend the constitution. The procedures were created back when there were just 13 states.
 

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I’ve a a few ‘missed period’ scares. But never once was abortion even discussed. I could never live with myself if I encouraged a girl to abort.
 

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Letting the church run the state is the way of life in Iran, Afghanistan, and everywhere they have sharia law. They are our new role models.
Actually, it’s the other way around. Allowing elected representatives to decide whether abortion should be legal is democratic. Having unelected judicial officials make that decision by decree is not. Roe v. Wade was a product of woke taliban.
 

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The extent to which all the states must agree, as well as congress, makes it nearly impossible to amend the constitution. The procedures were created back when there were just 13 states.
Difficult but not impossible. The most recent amendment to the Constitution took place in 1992. There were also a bunch of other amendments ratified in the 20th century, when the number of states was no drastically different from the present day.

Constitutional amendments are meant to be for things that people widely agree upon (i.e. the number of terms a person can serve as president), not highly divisive and controversial issues.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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