"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Your thoughts? My last post as your typical nice guy.

ThisStopsNow

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*First off being new here, cheers to everyone on this site because it has been like opening a bible to me and hopefully I can repay the favor and help you all one day once I gain the experience*

Ok, looking back and reading this I feel like an absolute idiot AFC. That is why I'm deleting this thread. From now on. No more acting like that! Thanks for your answers guys though.
 
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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SingledadinKY

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It sounds like the attraction she may have had for you expired when you didn't make a move.
 

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With this chick you are basically in the friend zone. You best course of action is to maintain it and do not make a move as it gets very weird if it backfires to the point of being awkward. The plus side is she has a lot of friends...also dont rule out the possibility that she will make a move on you. Dont be so available to her (physically and emotionally) and flirt with other girls around her so she knows that she is not your be all and end all.
 
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