"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Your thoughts? My last post as your typical nice guy.

ThisStopsNow

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*First off being new here, cheers to everyone on this site because it has been like opening a bible to me and hopefully I can repay the favor and help you all one day once I gain the experience*

Ok, looking back and reading this I feel like an absolute idiot AFC. That is why I'm deleting this thread. From now on. No more acting like that! Thanks for your answers guys though.
 
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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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SingledadinKY

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It sounds like the attraction she may have had for you expired when you didn't make a move.
 

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With this chick you are basically in the friend zone. You best course of action is to maintain it and do not make a move as it gets very weird if it backfires to the point of being awkward. The plus side is she has a lot of friends...also dont rule out the possibility that she will make a move on you. Dont be so available to her (physically and emotionally) and flirt with other girls around her so she knows that she is not your be all and end all.
 
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