"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Your thoughts? My last post as your typical nice guy.

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ThisStopsNow

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*First off being new here, cheers to everyone on this site because it has been like opening a bible to me and hopefully I can repay the favor and help you all one day once I gain the experience*

Ok, looking back and reading this I feel like an absolute idiot AFC. That is why I'm deleting this thread. From now on. No more acting like that! Thanks for your answers guys though.
 
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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It sounds like the attraction she may have had for you expired when you didn't make a move.
 
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With this chick you are basically in the friend zone. You best course of action is to maintain it and do not make a move as it gets very weird if it backfires to the point of being awkward. The plus side is she has a lot of friends...also dont rule out the possibility that she will make a move on you. Dont be so available to her (physically and emotionally) and flirt with other girls around her so she knows that she is not your be all and end all.
 
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