"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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your thought on mike tyson coming back

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He should stay within his original style under Cuz. Those fundamentals with wisdom will be a problem for opponents. His mindset needs to shift.
Well. I'm a firm believer in review, review, review.
I wonder if he took notes or drew diagrams he could be rereading. Looking at old pictures and home movies. Visualising happy memories of lessons and the family life he had with Cuz
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Well. I'm a firm believer in review, review, review.
I wonder if he took notes or drew diagrams he could be rereading. Looking at old pictures and home movies. Visualising happy memories of lessons and the family life he had with Cuz
Those same vids we watched can be his foundation. Those techniques made him world champ.
 

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He has a mental roladex that the younger cats cant have. The body is amazing. If you push it it will overcompensate and get stronger.
Yes, I know. I experience it working manual labour. Its akin to sports. I was thinking of starting a thread here asking who works physically in their job all day every day but I don't know that many are even working in pandemic. Might be misconstrued. I'm just curious how people can do afterwork sports and have regular lovelife with a fulltime labour job.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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So before Tyson worked for Don King, I learned that he had wiped out all his fighters. It wasn't intentional, just how it happened. So perhaps this fueled Don's desire to make money off of him, then rob him in the end and make he wish he was dead. Don King was a gangster.

At 40:40 into this footage Holmes complained about Tyson throwing elbows, headbuts and hitting after the bell. So he said he didn't see a gentleman in there, he saw a beast. So if he wants to be a beast he's gonna have to go in there with a beast. At that time Holmes was saying he would "humble" Tyson, Holmes may have been one Don Kings men.
that's the movie on Tyson
 

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What about The Toad?

Tyson says it killed his ego, or at least changed it fundamentally. He certainly seems more mellow and humble in interviews. I can’t help but wonder if this, plus age, has seriously softened his killer instinct.
 

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What about The Toad?

Tyson says it killed his ego, or at least changed it fundamentally. He certainly seems more mellow and humble in interviews. I can’t help but wonder if this, plus age, has seriously softened his killer instinct.
What is the toad?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Dynamite:

That training HEAT.
so weird to have people stand around and watch you train without coaching or encouraging you
I enjoy watching this because I believe this is high skill and I admire it. I think he could continue to win fights just like in the past as his training was so thorough.
That is a good youtube channel to have these videos.
 

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so weird to have people stand around and watch you train without coaching or encouraging you
I enjoy watching this because I believe this is high skill and I admire it. I think he could continue to win fights just like in the past as his training was so thorough.
That is a good youtube channel to have these videos.
He's hot, and he didn't have fans and medias around him in these training sessions. If I was in his shoes I'd be limiting that sort of attention and not do any talking. Focus on the training that has to be done. Eat, sleep, live it.
 

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He's hot, and he didn't have fans and medias around him in these training sessions. If I was in his shoes I'd be limiting that sort of attention and not do any talking. Focus on the training that has to be done. Eat, sleep, live it.
Man, to get that kind of an attentive coach one-on-one....you could accomplish the world!!
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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