"Blank Mind on Dates? She's Dropping Hints You Keep Missing"

The plates get cleared and the silence lands like a brick. You can feel her waiting. Your brain offers up your commute, your job, the weather — topics that have ended more second dates than bad breath.

Here's what most guys never learn: women hand out free conversational material all night long. Tiny clues about what they actually want to discuss. Catch them and you never run out of things to say — because she's telling you what to say next.

Rule 4 of the "22 Rules" trains your ear to catch every single one.

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"Your such a dork" "haha"

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If a chick calls u a dork when you r joking around with her is that a good thing?, also when u go to get something to eat and u get back and she says that u should have told her u were going cause she would have gone with u, when u just met her.
this might be really obvious, but I am really drunk right now. just got back from a club, but I can still spel korektli.
thanks.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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you look really fuken gay dude. like some 15 year old.

i'd go your gf by the way. i think she's only with you cause you kinda look like a girl and she's bisexual. but she likes dik.
 

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Originally posted by Tails
you look really fuken gay dude. like some 15 year old.

i'd go your gf by the way. i think she's only with you cause you kinda look like a girl and she's bisexual. but she likes dik.
hey, i could have sworn i just read a post about you worried about yourself looking gay, not being able to get laid, and basically being an AFC biatch ass. stop talking sh*t cuz I thought i just read about you resorting to paying for sex. shut up.

http://www.sosuave.com/vBulletin/showthread.php?s=&threadid=50111
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Raven125

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Originally posted by Tails
you look really fuken gay dude. like some 15 year old.

i'd go your gf by the way. i think she's only with you cause you kinda look like a girl and she's bisexual. but she likes dik.
Give me a break.. if you have to try and lash out at other people to try and make up for your mistakes... this forum isnt for you

I'm 13 and i've probably gotten more ass than you..
 

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Originally posted by Tails
you look really fuken gay dude. like some 15 year old.

i'd go your gf by the way. i think she's only with you cause you kinda look like a girl and she's bisexual. but she likes dik.
I've seen a lot of this jerk's posts recently, they're all random crap that doesn't even relate to the topic a lot of the times.


Anyways, jaybeezi, obviously it depends on her tone of voice. If she's laughing, being playful while saying it, then of course I think its a good thing.
 

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NEVER take what people say about you personally because it is just their opinion, which is never right or wrong. The only opinion about yourself that matters comes FROM YOURSELF. Like Pook says: "As you think, you shall become." Basically that means if you think you're a pimp, you either are a pimp or you will become one. At times like these the "I-Don't-Give-A-FVCK-What-People-Think-About-Me" attitude comes in handy. People say things they don't mean all the time. They do so either because they don't give a fvck, they think they're right, or they are just plain ignorant mofos.
 

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Originally posted by Sniper2k
NEVER take what people say about you personally because it is just their opinion, which is never right or wrong. The only opinion about yourself that matters comes FROM YOURSELF. Like Pook says: "As you think, you shall become." Basically that means if you think you're a pimp, you either are a pimp or you will become one. At times like these the "I-Don't-Give-A-FVCK-What-People-Think-About-Me" attitude comes in handy. People say things they don't mean all the time. They do so either because they don't give a fvck, they think they're right, or they are just plain ignorant mofos.
spot on sniper
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Originally posted by Raven125
I'm 13 and i've probably gotten more ass than you..

you probably have... maybe because i am not gay?
 

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Originally posted by Tails
you probably have... maybe because i am not gay?
LOL yes.. i'm on the don juan forums trying to attract women because i'm gay... you caught me...
 

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Originally posted by Raven125
Give me a break.. if you have to try and lash out at other people to try and make up for your mistakes... this forum isnt for you

I'm 13 and i've probably gotten more ass than you..
LMAO! +2 points for the 7th grader :D
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Originally posted by jaybeezi
If a chick calls u a dork when you r joking around with her is that a good thing?, also when u go to get something to eat and u get back and she says that u should have told her u were going cause she would have gone with u, when u just met her.
this might be really obvious, but I am really drunk right now. just got back from a club, but I can still spel korektli.
thanks.
I dunno, usually this is a good thing. Basically it means they think you are cute. Like, I would do crazy things and a girl would say 'you're such a dork' and kinda roll her eyes. But she liked it. Kinda like when she calls you a jerk after you playfully tease her. She likes it.

But I guess it's possible that she really thinks you're a TRUE dork- unattractive nerd. But you should have been able to tell that by her tone of voice. And she probably wouldn't have talked to you very long.

So yeah, I'm thinking it's a good thing.

Don't sweat it.
 
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