Johnnyventana
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What was your so suave moment? In other words, when you finally decided that being AFC = ghey, and felt truly real/good about embracing your own strength.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Your "So Sauve" moment.
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
September 2010.
I had oneitis for a Brazilian girl that I met in Spain. I was so insecure about myself that I didn't approach her until about the 3rd week there(stayed a month) and I settled for an email later on thinking that I could get this girl by talking with her on the computer. After telling this girl some "sweet things" after we both went back to our homes, I find out that she doesn't like me(only as a friend) after confessing my feelings online to her. Then, I was depressed, and after that, I decided to step up and become the man I needed to be. And later, I started reading articles here, cold approaching, etc... and now I'm just concerned with banging attractive women and bettering myself as a man through self actualization. And I want to bang that Brazilian girl too, though I have no feelings for her now or for any girl.
Also, I shun the online thing now and prefer the Cold approach.
Cold Approach>Hired Guns>Social Circle
It's funny how I've changed so much since then. I would've killed to have a hot Asian or Brazilian girlfriend then. Now, I want a harem of them.
I had oneitis for a Brazilian girl that I met in Spain. I was so insecure about myself that I didn't approach her until about the 3rd week there(stayed a month) and I settled for an email later on thinking that I could get this girl by talking with her on the computer. After telling this girl some "sweet things" after we both went back to our homes, I find out that she doesn't like me(only as a friend) after confessing my feelings online to her. Then, I was depressed, and after that, I decided to step up and become the man I needed to be. And later, I started reading articles here, cold approaching, etc... and now I'm just concerned with banging attractive women and bettering myself as a man through self actualization. And I want to bang that Brazilian girl too, though I have no feelings for her now or for any girl.
Also, I shun the online thing now and prefer the Cold approach.
Cold Approach>Hired Guns>Social Circle
It's funny how I've changed so much since then. I would've killed to have a hot Asian or Brazilian girlfriend then. Now, I want a harem of them.
Johnnyventana
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Love it! "Now, I want a harem of them. "
"3countriesPlan
Master Don Juan
Back in like 2005 when I had another user name.. met an AW who was spitting some lame azz game at me and wasting my time. Of course, as a total AFC I stuck around forever it seemed until that ended and knew that I'd better start taking a look and utilizing more of the knowledge here. And no, I didn't close her either...