Johnnyventana
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What was your so suave moment? In other words, when you finally decided that being AFC = ghey, and felt truly real/good about embracing your own strength.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Your "So Sauve" moment.
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
September 2010.
I had oneitis for a Brazilian girl that I met in Spain. I was so insecure about myself that I didn't approach her until about the 3rd week there(stayed a month) and I settled for an email later on thinking that I could get this girl by talking with her on the computer. After telling this girl some "sweet things" after we both went back to our homes, I find out that she doesn't like me(only as a friend) after confessing my feelings online to her. Then, I was depressed, and after that, I decided to step up and become the man I needed to be. And later, I started reading articles here, cold approaching, etc... and now I'm just concerned with banging attractive women and bettering myself as a man through self actualization. And I want to bang that Brazilian girl too, though I have no feelings for her now or for any girl.
Also, I shun the online thing now and prefer the Cold approach.
Cold Approach>Hired Guns>Social Circle
It's funny how I've changed so much since then. I would've killed to have a hot Asian or Brazilian girlfriend then. Now, I want a harem of them.
I had oneitis for a Brazilian girl that I met in Spain. I was so insecure about myself that I didn't approach her until about the 3rd week there(stayed a month) and I settled for an email later on thinking that I could get this girl by talking with her on the computer. After telling this girl some "sweet things" after we both went back to our homes, I find out that she doesn't like me(only as a friend) after confessing my feelings online to her. Then, I was depressed, and after that, I decided to step up and become the man I needed to be. And later, I started reading articles here, cold approaching, etc... and now I'm just concerned with banging attractive women and bettering myself as a man through self actualization. And I want to bang that Brazilian girl too, though I have no feelings for her now or for any girl.
Also, I shun the online thing now and prefer the Cold approach.
Cold Approach>Hired Guns>Social Circle
It's funny how I've changed so much since then. I would've killed to have a hot Asian or Brazilian girlfriend then. Now, I want a harem of them.
Johnnyventana
Senior Don Juan
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Love it! "Now, I want a harem of them. "
"3countriesPlan
Master Don Juan
Back in like 2005 when I had another user name.. met an AW who was spitting some lame azz game at me and wasting my time. Of course, as a total AFC I stuck around forever it seemed until that ended and knew that I'd better start taking a look and utilizing more of the knowledge here. And no, I didn't close her either...