Johnnyventana
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What was your so suave moment? In other words, when you finally decided that being AFC = ghey, and felt truly real/good about embracing your own strength.
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Your "So Sauve" moment.
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
September 2010.
I had oneitis for a Brazilian girl that I met in Spain. I was so insecure about myself that I didn't approach her until about the 3rd week there(stayed a month) and I settled for an email later on thinking that I could get this girl by talking with her on the computer. After telling this girl some "sweet things" after we both went back to our homes, I find out that she doesn't like me(only as a friend) after confessing my feelings online to her. Then, I was depressed, and after that, I decided to step up and become the man I needed to be. And later, I started reading articles here, cold approaching, etc... and now I'm just concerned with banging attractive women and bettering myself as a man through self actualization. And I want to bang that Brazilian girl too, though I have no feelings for her now or for any girl.
Also, I shun the online thing now and prefer the Cold approach.
Cold Approach>Hired Guns>Social Circle
It's funny how I've changed so much since then. I would've killed to have a hot Asian or Brazilian girlfriend then. Now, I want a harem of them.
I had oneitis for a Brazilian girl that I met in Spain. I was so insecure about myself that I didn't approach her until about the 3rd week there(stayed a month) and I settled for an email later on thinking that I could get this girl by talking with her on the computer. After telling this girl some "sweet things" after we both went back to our homes, I find out that she doesn't like me(only as a friend) after confessing my feelings online to her. Then, I was depressed, and after that, I decided to step up and become the man I needed to be. And later, I started reading articles here, cold approaching, etc... and now I'm just concerned with banging attractive women and bettering myself as a man through self actualization. And I want to bang that Brazilian girl too, though I have no feelings for her now or for any girl.
Also, I shun the online thing now and prefer the Cold approach.
Cold Approach>Hired Guns>Social Circle
It's funny how I've changed so much since then. I would've killed to have a hot Asian or Brazilian girlfriend then. Now, I want a harem of them.
Johnnyventana
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Love it! "Now, I want a harem of them. "
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Back in like 2005 when I had another user name.. met an AW who was spitting some lame azz game at me and wasting my time. Of course, as a total AFC I stuck around forever it seemed until that ended and knew that I'd better start taking a look and utilizing more of the knowledge here. And no, I didn't close her either...