Johnnyventana
Senior Don Juan
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What was your so suave moment? In other words, when you finally decided that being AFC = ghey, and felt truly real/good about embracing your own strength.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Your "So Sauve" moment.
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
September 2010.
I had oneitis for a Brazilian girl that I met in Spain. I was so insecure about myself that I didn't approach her until about the 3rd week there(stayed a month) and I settled for an email later on thinking that I could get this girl by talking with her on the computer. After telling this girl some "sweet things" after we both went back to our homes, I find out that she doesn't like me(only as a friend) after confessing my feelings online to her. Then, I was depressed, and after that, I decided to step up and become the man I needed to be. And later, I started reading articles here, cold approaching, etc... and now I'm just concerned with banging attractive women and bettering myself as a man through self actualization. And I want to bang that Brazilian girl too, though I have no feelings for her now or for any girl.
Also, I shun the online thing now and prefer the Cold approach.
Cold Approach>Hired Guns>Social Circle
It's funny how I've changed so much since then. I would've killed to have a hot Asian or Brazilian girlfriend then. Now, I want a harem of them.
I had oneitis for a Brazilian girl that I met in Spain. I was so insecure about myself that I didn't approach her until about the 3rd week there(stayed a month) and I settled for an email later on thinking that I could get this girl by talking with her on the computer. After telling this girl some "sweet things" after we both went back to our homes, I find out that she doesn't like me(only as a friend) after confessing my feelings online to her. Then, I was depressed, and after that, I decided to step up and become the man I needed to be. And later, I started reading articles here, cold approaching, etc... and now I'm just concerned with banging attractive women and bettering myself as a man through self actualization. And I want to bang that Brazilian girl too, though I have no feelings for her now or for any girl.
Also, I shun the online thing now and prefer the Cold approach.
Cold Approach>Hired Guns>Social Circle
It's funny how I've changed so much since then. I would've killed to have a hot Asian or Brazilian girlfriend then. Now, I want a harem of them.
Johnnyventana
Senior Don Juan
- Joined
- Jan 29, 2011
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- Reaction score
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Love it! "Now, I want a harem of them. "
"3countriesPlan
Master Don Juan
Back in like 2005 when I had another user name.. met an AW who was spitting some lame azz game at me and wasting my time. Of course, as a total AFC I stuck around forever it seemed until that ended and knew that I'd better start taking a look and utilizing more of the knowledge here. And no, I didn't close her either...