"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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id like to see what kind of success rates are average. Perhaps we can have various batting averages to compare (ie batting 300 in baseball - getting a hit 30% of the time is better than average).

i am thinking something like

1)how many girls you have asked for a number over the last year/6 months

2) how many gave you their number

3) how many went out with you at least once

4) more than once

5) how many you made out with

etc.

try to really think about it and make a list to be as accurate as possible.

Im hoping this is not going to be a negative competition thing, but a way to gauge your relative succes.

my unnoficial #'s are approxamatley

1) 35 girls asked for number
2) 32/35 give number
3)about 10/35 actually turn into a date
4) 6/10 multiple dates
5) 4/6 make out
6) 3/6 intercourse

i'll make out a list thats more accurate and post actual results (which i think are a little higher than my estimations here)

my hope is not for bragging rights, but comparison
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Past year:

1) 1 (Just realised that) but 3 others gave me theirs
2) 1 (so 100% there)
3) 0 (had 3 'meetups' planned but none actually happened for one reason or another)
4) 0
5) 0

But during this time I had a f buddy, so the figures don't really tell you that much. I found her before this year so her stats aren't included, whilst laying her I didn't really go after many others, she's gone now though so I reckon my next years stats will be higher for both 1 and hopefully 2!.
 

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If people respond truthfully this thread could be really interesting, I'd hazard a guess and say the original posters stats are way higher than average.
 

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[QUOTE
1) 35 girls asked for number
2) 32/35 give number
3)about 10/35 actually turn into a date
4) 6/10 multiple dates
5) 4/6 make out
6) 3/6 intercourse

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So that's an 8.5% intercourse success rate from asking for a number. So one in 12 girls you ask for digits from you end up boning, not bad at all!.
 

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1. 3 numbers asked
2. 3/3 numbers get
3. 2/3 Date
4. 1/3 Multpl date
5. 6/? Make out
6. 4/6 Intercourse

Actually I do 5-6 before 1-4.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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