"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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id like to see what kind of success rates are average. Perhaps we can have various batting averages to compare (ie batting 300 in baseball - getting a hit 30% of the time is better than average).

i am thinking something like

1)how many girls you have asked for a number over the last year/6 months

2) how many gave you their number

3) how many went out with you at least once

4) more than once

5) how many you made out with

etc.

try to really think about it and make a list to be as accurate as possible.

Im hoping this is not going to be a negative competition thing, but a way to gauge your relative succes.

my unnoficial #'s are approxamatley

1) 35 girls asked for number
2) 32/35 give number
3)about 10/35 actually turn into a date
4) 6/10 multiple dates
5) 4/6 make out
6) 3/6 intercourse

i'll make out a list thats more accurate and post actual results (which i think are a little higher than my estimations here)

my hope is not for bragging rights, but comparison
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Past year:

1) 1 (Just realised that) but 3 others gave me theirs
2) 1 (so 100% there)
3) 0 (had 3 'meetups' planned but none actually happened for one reason or another)
4) 0
5) 0

But during this time I had a f buddy, so the figures don't really tell you that much. I found her before this year so her stats aren't included, whilst laying her I didn't really go after many others, she's gone now though so I reckon my next years stats will be higher for both 1 and hopefully 2!.
 

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If people respond truthfully this thread could be really interesting, I'd hazard a guess and say the original posters stats are way higher than average.
 

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[QUOTE
1) 35 girls asked for number
2) 32/35 give number
3)about 10/35 actually turn into a date
4) 6/10 multiple dates
5) 4/6 make out
6) 3/6 intercourse

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So that's an 8.5% intercourse success rate from asking for a number. So one in 12 girls you ask for digits from you end up boning, not bad at all!.
 

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1. 3 numbers asked
2. 3/3 numbers get
3. 2/3 Date
4. 1/3 Multpl date
5. 6/? Make out
6. 4/6 Intercourse

Actually I do 5-6 before 1-4.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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