"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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skeeloo

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how do you knowwhen youv gained bulk. some dudes do it with a measurement tapes. what i mostly do is i got this medium sized t-shirt. now after each workout trying it on to see if its tight for me. if it isnt then i havnt gained well.its like im never content i always want to gained more mass. most times i see my self smaller than i actually am and other times more than .
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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donjuanjovi

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If you're going to judge by your t-shirt, than don't try it on after every workout. Throw it in the closet for a month. You're not going to 'gain bulk' from a single workout.

I judge myself by the 'nekid factor'. I take my dashing good looks, divide it by my outstanding physique, than multiply it by my low body fat which gives me a feel good 'nekid' number............... Basically I look in the mirror.


For those who live under rocks. Nekid = naked, with attitude.
 

stronglifts

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*use mirror
*take pictures
*use the measurement tape
*don't believe the scale, water retention can cheat the numbers.

do it weekly, every time under the same circumstances.

-Mehdi.
 
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